Here's the thing, every morning before school, i always see this boy at the bus stop.... i really really really like him but there is no way i can talk to him!!!
help!
2006-12-08 08:45:53 · 21 answers · asked by Jpegg 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there hun
well maybe bring a friend with you to the bus station, help brings your confidence up
or make up some kind of convesation, something easy, like
its cold init , nice back pack something like that.
i hope this helps
good luck hun xxx
2006-12-08 08:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want help talking to him, there is nothing we can do. You just have to "bite the bullet" and walk up to him and say hello. You don't have to say anything else if you do not want to. Start slowly and work your way up to a conversation. Most guys like it when a girl can carry on a conversation. You can start by asking about him. What are his likes dislikes. His family. Not all at once of course. What kind of music does he like. What is his favorite subject? What is his favorite teacher? See if you have any of the same interests and go from there. You CAN do it. Once you start a conversation with him, you will find out if you really do like him or not as a person. It isn't that bad to talk to people. Look at it like you are just getting to know someone as a friend. Don't look at it like a possible boyfriend. You will be too nervous. If it leads to that in the future, it will be a nice surprise. Nothing wrong with a new good friend.
2006-12-08 16:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to him then you're pretty much scr*wed! You could always try a good old classic and drop a book as you walk past him. Or, if you have very good slight of hand, walk past him and drop a note into his pocket, something cryptic which he will have to take notice of. Leave it a few weeks and then drop another one in, you'll soon have his attention. Then, one day, deliberately let him feel you doing it so that he catches you. You have to talk to him now!
Maybe I thought about this a bit too much!!
2006-12-08 16:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by mad_caesar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate to u... but u should just go up to him and say hi. just start a little conversation and try to build off that. make it look like ur not nervous. have a friend come with u and then maybe you will feel more comfortable. ur never gonna know what kind of a person he is, if u don't talk to him. manybe he likes u. but you will never know if u don't take the chance. TAKE A RISK AND GO FOR IT!!!!!!
2006-12-08 17:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by hersheybabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to him then you'll have to leave it down to chance.
Getting a grip on the situation might help you get what you want tho. Try it. Chat and see what happens next - you might not even like him after he starts talking.
2006-12-08 16:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start off a friendly conversation, a subject anyone would relate to. Every relationship has to start out as a friendship anyways. So don't be shy!
2006-12-08 16:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could carry a notepad around. I've seen some other mute people communicate that way.
2006-12-08 16:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by Meriwether R. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i would say hi...but if ur like my friend [shy] well itz ok.
u can make up this school survey and ask people on that bus, so he doesnt suspect u
well good luck <3
2006-12-08 16:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by i <3 xou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about trivial stuff, school etc. Find a easy topic to chat 'bout and see if he opens up.
Be yourself
2006-12-08 16:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Summerfest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about the weather, and work up over time to proper chatting.. if you're in the same school talk about school stuff?
2006-12-08 18:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by starbabygirl1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋