We haven't been dating that long, but I have never felt like this with any guy before. I haven't felt this....strongly for ANYONE ever in my life. Just the things he says and does, like how he treats me. It's just so perfect. And I know it's not an act. I know this because of conversations that we have had, and some of the things he has said.Like everytime I talk to him, think about him, talk about him, see him or anything that has to do with him I can't stop smiling and I just feel so happy. Ever since he asked me out I've forgotten all about my troubles and everything has just been so perfect....-cause I think I am. I seriously think I would die if I lost him. but the thing is..we're young, like....both of us are almost16 but like I said, I have NEVER felt like this for anyone before DO YOU THINK AM I IN LOVE WITH HIM?!and is there anyway to know Like..how do I know if I am Cause if I am, I wanna know how/if/when I should tell him. And to clear it all up he said i love you first.
2006-12-08 08:40:51 · 16 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But yeah
He said "i love you" first
like either the day we started going out, or the day after
2006-12-08 08:41:31 · update #1
I think you might very well be in love, and age has nothing to do with it. Why couldn't you be in love at 16? If he said that he loves you and you feel that you love him, go ahead and tell him. Enjoy
2006-12-08 08:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but I think you are infatuated. When someone seems PERFECT with no flaws whatsoever, and they seem to be a panacea for unhappiness, then it is probably infatuation. Love develops when two people really know each other, they have seen them at their best and worst, and for all of it they still want to be together, come what may. I'm not saying that love can't happen quickly, but deep lasting love, like the kind of long marriages, has to be cultivated. Don't be discouraged though...love can grow from a crush, provided you realize that no one is perfect, and he will irritate or dissapoint you in some small ways at some point. I hope things work out for you.
2006-12-08 08:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by White and Nerdy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sure sounds like love to me you are not too young to be in love although from another view you are too young to have had that much experience(don't tell me i'm wrong). anyway all i can say is enjoy the feeling and enjoy the time you spend together because of your age, its advisable to take things really slow and sweet and keep intercourse out of the way there's sooo much fun things to do and if its real love u'll be together long enough to grow in love and later enjoy sex together in about the next 2 years if you do i can bet you when sex comes into the relationship u'll look back and treasure these days for the rest of your life. good luck.
2006-12-08 09:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by sleek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that you are and i know just where u are coming from see i am 15 almost 16 and my bf and i have been together for 2 1/2 yr and i fill for him the exact way that you fill for your bf. i think that it is cool to be in love with someone at such a young age because it could last and you know more about eachother but the way that i found out that i was in love was i went on the internet and i went on this site and put in am i in love and it told me the ways to know if i am in love and you fall under the same categories that i did.
2006-12-08 08:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you havent been dating very long, give it a little bit of time. i was anxious to tell my boyfriend i loved him too but i forced myself to wait. it just meant so much more to him and me too because of that. the thing is, when you first like a guy it's crazy. they're always on your mind and you cant stop smiling. but there's a time after a little while you get tired of that person. it's inevitable. if you make that through. and inspite of that you still feel you love him, you should then tell him. because you would want him to know the truth, without any doubts whatsoever.
2006-12-08 08:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probable only infatuated with him. call him and bypass carry out. See if he's your style, get to carry close one yet another. do not mislead him both, i'm confident he may sense a lot extra manly in case you advised him that you've been quite anxious about calling him. perchance he felt an identical. if you're only judging him on his seems, then you may be making a astounding mistake.
2016-11-24 23:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with him, if you are asking this question. You said he told you he loved you the first day you went out? You are too young. People usually don't fall in love until a while that they've been dating, but who knows? If you were in love, you wouldn't need to ask the advice of strangers.
2006-12-08 08:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU LIKE HIM ALOT!ALSO, YOU ARE INFATUATED WITH HIM (like feeling very inlove, but not really)..real love takes a lot of sacrifices...if time goes by and he's still like that with you and u still feel the same way despite the fights and misunderstanding (in the future) u can say you both love each other..
2006-12-08 08:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by black r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are probably in love with him, for now anyways. i've felt the exact same way about a couple of people but once the newness of it all wears off things change. if your feelings change later on in the game and you don't feel the same way as you do now then i would break it off
2006-12-08 08:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by starchild8072 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love knows no age limits , Romeo and Juliette were teenagers , just don't get pregnant , or married or anything foolish like that , i finally found my true love when i was 43 ( yeah i know , I'm a dinosaur ! ) love is great , it's better than chocolate , let it age , if it's right it will . good luck
2006-12-08 08:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by sterling m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋