Me and this guy started out as friends meeting in 1996 when I was a junior in HS. We dated and broke up once I went off to college. In that time we keep in contact and between all that I had a daughter. When he found out he was very upset with me for along time and in 2001 we worked out our differances. We began messing around and after sometime now. I want more from the relationship. Everytime I approach the topic he says he not ready or hes too busy right now. Today I asked him was I in his future and he avoided the question and wanted to know why? What is he really telling me? Is it just sex?
2006-12-08 08:36:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~The way he reacted to you having a baby was probably because he didn't want to be in a relationship with a kid involved. All the other signs point to him not wanting a relationship as well. It's just sex, move on.~
2006-12-08 08:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA... MORE THAN LIKELY, HE LIKES YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND COMPANY BUT HE DOESN'T WANT MORE. IF YOU VALUE HIM AS A FRIEND EXCEPT THE FRIENDSHIP FOR WHAT IT IS AND NOTHING MORE. ALSO STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO HANDLE IT, IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU'VE GOTTEN WAY TO EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED WHICH COULD GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT IN THE LONG RUN. IN THE MEAN TIME GO OUT MEET PEOPLE START DATING OTHER GUYS AND THINK ABOUT IT THIS WAY NOW YOU HAVE A MALE POINT OF VIEW ON WHAT TO FROM NOW ON. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-08 16:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just sex. Maybe he doesnt want to be a step dad. Could be many things... If he wont talk about it, then You should take absense of an answer as he doesnt see you in his future and Find someone better. Good luck
2006-12-08 16:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just regular sex. If he had plans for you in his future, you wouldn't have to ask
2006-12-08 16:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants to know why u went and had a child
2006-12-08 16:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋