We grew up tougher , we have very strong feelings for one another , but he is moving with his family , he is extreamly cute and I wanted a fruture with him , (((BUT HE IS MOVING )))) what should I do , I know I can't keep him off my mind , should I (when I become older ) go find him and marry him or what ? He is moving to FL , And I am in New York . Some one help me Please ?!!!
2006-12-08 08:34:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time apart will make you two grow apart. In all likelihood, in 2 years you will both be completely different people. Keep in touch... Sure... move there and get married when you are older... VERY unlikely. Sorry sweets. Its just how it is.
2006-12-08 08:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this same situation, a couple of weeks ago. Well, almost the same situation. Except we didn't grow up together. I knew that I had to tell him how I felt, before he left, because I might never get another chance. Let him know that you want a future with him. Don't let him leave, without confirming your feelings for each other, and decide what you guys are. If you are really in love with each other, than moving won't change your feelings. It will just change how often you can see each other. Sometimes it takes distance to make people realize how much they really care for someone. I think this is what is happening with you, your getting scared, now that u know he's moving. Hope I helped!
2006-12-08 16:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. You don't say how old you are but I don't see what you can do. Except learn to live with it. We all have disappointments and those to do with the heart seem so much worse when we are young. You will survive it even if it doesn't seem that way today. When you are older you will have moved on, have other friends so it is not possible to say now what to do then. Just wait and see. I know it doesn't seem possible but in time there may well be another boy.
2006-12-08 16:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this all depends on age. Talking about marrying one another is a very big step into a relationship. I suggest you keep very close contact with him, you can have a long distance relationship if you want to.(i don't really like long distance realationships) and anyway there will always be lots of other people but i recommend keeping him as a ver good friend.
2006-12-08 16:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail him, write letters, talk on the phone. or tell him how you feel. that may start somthing. i used to have this huge cruse on this one guy when i was 12. he moved away but before he did i sent him an email. it said i like you. not as a friend, not as a brother, but as somone i want to be with. if he really cares about you he will care about what you say.
2006-12-08 16:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by I♥RD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the exact same problem! my bf is also moving to north carolina actually hes already moved but then i still really love him and i live in new york too!so if you still love him then you should still continue to love him>.< and see how that works out if it works out bad then find someone new...
2006-12-08 16:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sufered that one time and I know it's tuff.But hear this, if he is moving without inviting you, or making no romantic suprise for you it means he loves you no more.
2006-12-08 16:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by dida d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your on the computer can't you E mail every day. Talk on the computer it is free and you can stay in touch.
2006-12-08 16:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him or tell him your fellings for him. Than maybe he will like you and, won't move anymore. TRY IT. It works. I did it.
2006-12-08 16:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lila Bloom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go if the two of you are meant to be then one day you will find each other again.
2006-12-08 16:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋