I find it amazing how many gay men are so nice, considerate, well-mannered, and really leave a good impression on a lot of straight women out there. Why is it, then, that so many heterosexual men won't take the time to learn those same traits? They could get themselves into more meaningful and lasting relationships than if they didn't learn them.
2006-12-08 08:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because most men focus on p u s s y instead of doing like a gay man does, and actually take an interest in a woman, have understanding and compassion. That is what women really need.
2006-12-08 08:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... those attributes are nice..."nice" being not something women are impressed by in men, why? because woman are highly developed human beings and need challenge. Challenging situations are trying to domesticate the "bad boys"... that's challenging. Or trying to make the bad boy fall in love with you, just you.
the ONLY reason that it works for gay men is because they are a challenge already... because they don't like women, so good manners only adds to the seduction of the can't have it syndrome...it's more exciting to play the game that just get what you want.
2006-12-08 08:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Orange Cloud 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its a bunch of crap....you will see that most of the time girls will say they want a nice guy..but date an ****** Women really do want men to be men
2006-12-08 08:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by mario z 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gay guys have such a different insoght compared to straight as they can relate to our problems of feeling insecure and all that..straight still need to learn.
2006-12-08 08:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by 321 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most males don't have fully functioning brains when dealing with women. though i apparently have one, this is coming from the ladies i talk too. and no i am not gay for anyone questioning it.
2006-12-08 08:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by godzilla74114 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know several straight women who say their gay guy friend is their best friend.
2006-12-08 08:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married men are also a lot friendlier.
I think it's easier for a man to be himself when he isn't available for dating. I guess it gives them confidence, knowing that they don't have to fear rejection.
2006-12-08 08:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by limendoz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are not in tough with their femeinine side, the straight guys that is, while the gays understand that side of themselves very well.
2006-12-08 08:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I f I am not mistaken - a gay man is just a women in men's clothing - so it would be easy to relate to someone you are trying to be like. A real man aint trying to be like no women ( thank god)
2006-12-08 08:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋