I have this friend....we're like best friends...more then best friends. We've known eachother for almost 6 years...we tell eachother that we love eachother everyday! It's almost like we're dating except we don't kiss or have sex. People are always saying we argue like were boyfriend and girlfriend. I think we both wonder about taking that step, but we know that if we start dating we will get really serious and we'll have something that's worth while. I don't think we're ready for anything like that. She's probably the most incredible woman I've ever met. Her personality is ideal for me...our signs match and she's beautiful! We're planning on moving in with eachother within the next few months....should I do this!?!? Please help!
2006-12-08 08:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only possible good outcome is very unlikely and that's that you'll get married.
Barring that, you'll have these possibilities:
move in together and one of you will start dating somebody and the other person will be jealous.
Move in together and you'll start dating each other. But you're living together, so it won't be like dating, it'll be like going straight to marriage. Why would you want to do that. If you then break up, somebody will have to move out.
You move in together and don't date, but you have to see her every day and she drives you nuts even more. It'd probably be like being hungry and having food waved in front of your face all day.
What if you start dating somebody else (even though you are hopelessly in love with future roomie, admit it!) and you bring them home, they're going to think it's weird since you two are so close.
The only time I lived with somebody I liked was with my now wife before we got married, but we had dated for awhile before that. I'd go through the proper motions first, or you might be in a living hell later.
2006-12-08 08:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by cluckys_cheese_wheel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction you may, each so often you like a individual lots besides the shown fact that it in no way reaches that romantic point. i know how you experience i've got had emotions for certainly one of my terrific acquaintances who's a guy too, yet I even have yet another terrific pal who's a guy additionally that i don't experience any romantic inclination in direction of regard the shown fact that he's gay. So what i'm attempting to declare is that confident i think of which you would be able to have a terrific pal who's the alternative intercourse.
2016-10-14 07:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough question, If you two don't have anybody else in your life now then try dating before you move in to see if it works for both of you.
2006-12-08 08:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it would be a good thing to do if u have feelings for her, she could have feelings for u too and u guys might date for a couple of months and then could break up, would u really want to live with her and watch her bring other people home i know that would hurt me
2006-12-08 08:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by jacketgirl13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT move in together. In my experience, living with someone you are attracted to always leads to disaster, and never leads where you think it will.
2006-12-08 09:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea becuase u will be closer to u..but if ur not ready to make da next step ito makin things serious den no becuase it very much wil lead to dat...good luck
2006-12-08 08:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it man
but make u sure not to make her uncomfortable
2006-12-08 08:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋