2006-12-08 08:09:00 · 19 answers · asked by j_nicole1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have already established he was not cheating...he had already ended their relationship the conception happened before we got together
2006-12-08 08:26:57 · update #1
First off all no offense but see how many months and see if it's really his baby to make sure he wasn't cheating. If he wasn't cheating stay with him and try to make it work and be the best step mom(kinda) you can be, because you haven't been with him long enough to experience your love, trust, and chemistry.
GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2006-12-08 08:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet_Carmel10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend was going to be the father of someone's baby, I'd rather it be mine. I personally could not deal with the stress involved in that particular situation. As soon as the baby's born you're going to be in the middle of a very complicated mess. The best thing to do is to get out, it's only been 3 months, no one is worth that much trouble at such an early point in the relationship. Honestly, though ...the decision is yours and yours alone to make. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-08 16:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many months is she? If shes more than 3 months then maybe its ok but at the same time do you see yourself with him forever? Cus you will have to deal with his baby moms and its like you cant really start a family with him when he has one with someone else its like you got to share and thats not fair. But if the chick is less than 3 i would quetion if he was creeping with her on the side and if ya'll have unprotected sex then I suggest you go get check cus if hes capable of cheating then she aint the only one.
2006-12-08 16:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no you should not stay becuase if he is the father of this child he will most likely want to be with his child and may go back to to his ex. just tell him it wouldn't be fair for that baby not to have a real father figure such as himself around and that he sould go be with his ex and take care of that baby together. It will prolly hurt you for a while but eventually in time the burns and bruises will heal and youwill find a new person to be with that will be like him!
2006-12-08 16:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide this one for yourself.
But the first major thing is.. Was this child concieved while he was with you? If so.. Drop him like a bad habit!
All I can say is its not going to be easy it never is. Its very hard being with someone with a baby on the way. Esp. if the ex will be bitter or will want him back. What levels will she stoop too?
Are you ready to be committed to him and his new child on the way? Is it truly his child. There are going to be tons of factors in this. Are you ready to deal with him running off to doctor apts. with her if he wants to go to them? Are you going to be able to deal with him being around the mom to be if he wishes to be?
If you can answer all these truthfully and feel you can honestly do it then stay with him, but if you have even the slightest doubt then break it off before your in to deep with your heart and time.
2006-12-08 16:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You've only been with him for 90 days so there's very little invested there. He needs to go back to the ex he impregnated, live up to his responsibilities and hopefully he'll do the right thing and marry her. You can easily find a new man, but the baby only has 1 father and it's him.
2006-12-08 16:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes but let him help her take care of the baby. But- thee's a slight chance he will break up with you to be with her again to give the baby a family so- be prepared if this were to happen. Be strong because you might love him and this is ahrd but- don't be selfish or get mad a thim for wanting to be with his ex- it it were the other way around? what would you do? ok there you go! try to be there for him and cooperate
2006-12-08 16:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.................he will most likely wind up with his wife and child. A marriage may split, but is not forgotten in 3 months time. And The baby deserves a chance with a family...............
2006-12-08 16:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by cityleaguefootballmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him enough, and are able to except that he is having a child with anohter womsn. It seems alot easier than it actually is, trust me. It's worth a try, but you might resent him.
2006-12-08 16:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by MissB_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is less that 3 months...I'd be leaving him!!!!
Actually, I would give him some space to clear his head. You've only been there for 3 months, do you really want him that bad???
2006-12-08 16:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋