i broke up with my boyfriend and he was mad. but then he made out with this other girl [se was cheating on her actual bf]. so i thought it would be ok for me to like some1. and then he wouldnt tlk to me so i told my friend i would give him his stuff and stop tlking to him.[i didnt want it to get worse]. well then he said sorry and i forgave him but the next day my friend told him that i said tht and he said i lied to him aabout wanting to be friends but i said tht b4 he said sorry. and now hes mad and i dont know what to do. help?!
2006-12-08 08:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Saying he doesn't want to be friends with you is his immature way of coping with the fact that you dumped him. (You won't be his girlfriend therefore he won't be your friend) better off without him as a boyfriend thats for sure... he sounds like a headache! Just my opinion..
2006-12-08 08:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heads UP girl!
1) He's trying to make you jealous
2) Your "friend" is trying to make sure you stay broken up.
It there a good reason for this? Either she cares about you and is trying to protect you, or perhaps she had some influence that caused the breakup in the first place. Sometimes friends don't like it when you have someone because they lose their friend's time and attention. If it's something more, maybe she wanted him for herself?
Just because he is jealous doesn't mean he wants you back. He's mad and wants to get even because you wounded his ego!
I think you should take some time for yourself and see if time and distance gives you a clearer perspective on the whole thing.
2006-12-08 20:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.
Why in the world do you care if your ex bf is talking to you or not? Why do you think you should not talk to other guys if it makes him mad? Who cares if it makes him mad, he's not your boyfriend any more.
Put him on ignore and move on.
2006-12-08 16:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.... if his you ex then why dont you move on. Dont mind what he says or what other people says. Since his making ot with other girls. If he doesnt want you be a part of him then you should be strong enough to be on you wn and you can welcome other relationship.
2006-12-08 16:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Raine Ssshhh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on it didn't work out being involved that's why you are not together now . don't stress over it either he will come around or he won't he is your ex leave it alone enjoy your life.
2006-12-08 16:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by kathy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be friends with him end of story. Don't chat with him, call him, etc. He wants something more and you will not give it to him
2006-12-08 16:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to deal with an ex is to not deal with an ex
2006-12-08 16:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by pamela_jake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋