I'm 14 years old an have a boyfriend who is 16.
We started having intercourse when i was 12.
We do practise safe sex.
The only trouble is he can't release his jip, and i'm very painful juring and afther sex.
I can't dump him because i love him.
2006-12-08 07:47:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What on earth is a jip? And how does one release it? Oh the youth of today...
2006-12-08 07:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by hello772345 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, At 14 you don;t even know the depths of love. I'm not trying to upset you, but you'll look back on this in 15 years and realize love was not involved. As for his conditon, some men just don't, I really don;t know too much about it. I'm more concerned about the starting to have sex when you were 12.What do your parents think? Try taking a step back and look at it as a third party. You're too young!!!
Renee
2006-12-08 07:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by SUNBURNTFROG 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Woo girl that is insane I can't believe how young you were when you started having sex 0_0.. your a kid enjoy your youth.. why are you getting all heavy like that..When I was your age I enjoyed being a kid I didn't even think about that stuff.. kids are growing up faster nowadays.
If its painful maybe your going to hard, or maybe your body isn't ready for what your doing. I'm sorry if what I said bothers you.. I don't mean to hurt you in anyway.. it's just your a kid..and this is me being honest.
2006-12-08 08:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by bulldogsr2cute 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I Must tell you that although you are 14 and he is 16, it is quite likely that your physical body has still some developing left to do. Which can easily be the cause of you experiancing pain durnig intercourse.
Do remember that once he is of legal age and you are not, someone could easily get into a lot of trouble nuless those people who could get him into trouble are aware of your relationship and approve of it.
At 14 & 16, unless you have a lot of freedom and use of house / bedroom with complete privacy and no fear of being walked in on... chances are that he nor you will ever be able to fully enjoy sex until you can feel that comfort of safety and physical as well as emotional peace.
Good luck
2006-12-08 07:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Psycho Ali 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Basically your boyfriend needs to be charged with Statutory Rape & Unlawful sex with a minor!!! He also needs to sign onto the Sex Offenders Register!!!!
You and him may will think that he is 'developed' and therefore ready for sex, but the fact remains that it's painful for you as your body is not fully developed and definately not ready for any sexual activity!!! FACT!!!!! That is why it is illegal to have sex with a girl under the age of 16!!!!
2006-12-10 01:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
12 now 14, maybe thats why its painful, your not of age to be having sex yet, and I definately would not have broadcasted my age if I was asking this question being as young as you are.
2006-12-08 07:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im confused by the question. If youre worried go and see a doctor and explain the problem. Get medical advice rather than yahoo answers!
2006-12-08 07:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well , dont fall in love men are dogs. you will end up focusing on men instead of your self and then rely on them for everything. you will end up quitting school and being a dum *** . did you get child melisted when you were younger? that can cause you to have sex so young. telling ya you need to quite now
2006-12-08 07:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by sophie 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a Counselor, sex at 12 is not normal OR healthy.
There is no safe sex when you are 12 or 16.
Good Luck.
2006-12-08 07:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by C 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I realise that we are bound to get pervs on this site. It's the downside of freedom of speech.
But I really do think you should eff off.
2006-12-08 07:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋