I have been dating this guy for the past 2 months. everything was going good until I went away to go visit family for thanksgiving. He wanted me to go with him. Now that I'm back it isn't the same. He is getting mad for no reason. I got so mad at him I broke up with him but we go back together the next day. Last night I went over his house It was weird because we are usally are cuddle up on the sofa this time we were sitting like strangers. We did you thing or whatever. he couldn't get it up when he did he came super fast. When we where finished he was walking around with an adittude. he takes me back home I asked for a kiss he just looked at me. My friends say that he is just going through a men period because he is only been acting like this for a week now. I don't know.
2006-12-08 07:44:33 · 18 answers · asked by brinapinkypink87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, I am 31 years old and I have NEVER been wrong about my intuition. Intuition is your brain's way of IM'n you and getting your attention. You know for a FACT that something is waaayy wrong, because that little voice in your head has been whispering it for a while. If you needed some other people's opinions to help you along in deciding if you were right, I think you've got them right here. Go with your gut feeling. I learned that in high school when I took the PSATs. They always tell you to go with your gut reaction, because 9 times out of 10 it will be correct. I believe that it applies to your situation as well. Find someone who will be your friend AND your super-hot-sexy-monkey lover, lol. Good luck. You can do this, no doubt!!
2006-12-08 08:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him straight out what the heck is going on? I think you deserve some answers regarding his behavior towards you and if you don't get them, then walk away. There must be some reason he's acting the way he is, you just need to get it out of him. If he won't talk about anything specific, then you need to decide if this is the way you want or need to be treated. If it is, then stay, if not, then go.
2006-12-08 15:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months... If he is acting like this he doesn't derserve you. Whatever the cause of his distress is its obvious he can't communicate with you. He maybe feeling insecure and having problems with emotions. There are better men out there who can actually express themselves. He may of just wanted more sex. Until you ask him you will never know. If he can express his issue and work to fix it he is not worth your time. Don't date someone you don't plan to spend more time with. Especially if they are going to act like this and make drama that isn't there.
2006-12-08 15:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to him about this. It could be a lot of different reasons. The man period is possible, but there could be a lot of different reason behind this. He could be depressed, he could be unhappy with your relationship, there are so many possible reasons. Just talk to him and find out why, but if he doesn't want to help you fix the relatioship then I would say leave him.
2006-12-08 16:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His attitude probably came from his nonability to perform.If he is acting like a stranger I would say it is over and he is just keeping you around do do "the thing"
2006-12-08 15:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by clueless1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like theres something more going on with him than a man thing. if hes going to act this way if your apart for only a week, honestly i dont think your going to be happy in the future. let it go (just my opinion)
2006-12-08 15:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way should you continue to take this from him. It is way too early in your relationship for him to behave this way. Would you want to be with someone that didn't respect your time with your family? Tell him you refuse to waste your time with someone who treats you this way and dump the creep. You can do better.
2006-12-08 15:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Robin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should do what your heart tells you. Explain to him that visiting your family was important to you. Maybe come up with a game plan for what to do over future holidays.
2006-12-08 15:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex after 2 months is your first mistake.
But the answer when anyone has to ask this is almost always YES.
No exception.
Peace!
2006-12-08 15:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your friend is surely right,he might been going out with a guy like him.Mind you get the hell away from him and look out for another bf okay.Good luck to you
2006-12-08 15:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋