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Ok, I've been depressed for a very long time. My boyfriend left me a year and a half ago. And He left me in a trail of bad luck when it comes finding another boyfriend. But now, I've found someone else. But I don't know if he likes me in the same way. And I've sent him emails and asked him if he likes me in the same way. But I think I'm scaring him away. How do I know if I actually am scaring him away? And How do I stop? This guy is a really nice and caring guy. How do I keep him? Do I just let time or something like that bring us together? Help? A.

2006-12-08 07:42:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

No one can give you bad luck...you only bring it on yourself if you believe in it so toss that thinking in the trash right now!

You don't need ANY man to be happy. There's nothing wrong with being an independent woman and you should make sure that you are independent going INTO any new relationship, and that you remain independent in case it doesn't work out.

Make sure you can always depend on yourself and have your own support network of family and friends separate from any romantic relationship that you are in.

There are SO MANY single guys out there waiting for a good woman who is strong, smart, independent (financially and emotionally secure) and confident. That means not clingy and needy.

Work on becoming confident in yourself before you jump into a relationship. Take educational courses to reach your goals and get a good job (if you don't already have one) and have goals for yourself and your life that don't involve a relationship. Sure, getting married and having kids is a good goal, but you must have something for yourself.

Once you love and respect yourself you can find a man who is worthy of you and you don't have to latch onto the first guy who shows you some attention.

Good luck and God bless my friend!

2006-12-08 09:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0 0

first of all sweetie, your life is what you make it. he didnt give you bad luck. try talking to the guy in person. if he doesnt answer you then back off. it could be he doesnt know and may not be ready for this conversation. give it time and see how things go. maybe he'll decide to tell you on his own or the time will feel right to ask him again. good luck

2006-12-08 15:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0 0

Do you email him frequently?
Do you bring up your ex boyfriend at all?
Do you come off as desperate?
If any of these your scaring him off. Now relax. Don't email him so much. Do it casually(not too casually though). NEVER talk about your ex and him leaving you. Just ask to go on a date. Men like confident, relaxed women. Not hyper low self-esteem ones.

2006-12-08 15:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0 0

Everything will happen in its own time. Back down a bit and just enjoy his company, you will both benefit and with all luck you will enjoy a long lasting and loving relationship. Its not always easy but it is worth it

2006-12-08 15:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by mookie 3 · 0 0

Just take it a little slower. If it was meant to be it will happen!

2006-12-08 15:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0 0

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