theres a girl at my school who i am realy good friends with. recently ive been having feelings for her and i want to ask her out. but ive never been out with anybody before and shes been out with at least 5 people. she was only going out with them each for less than a month and im worried that the same thing will happen to me. i think that we would be realy good together but i dont want to lose her. what should i do? do i worry too much?
2006-12-08 07:37:14 · 10 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think your being smart in thinking this way - but you never know. things could be different with you. whats the worse that could happen? just make sure you use protection if you decide to sleep together
2006-12-08 07:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i started going out with my boyfriend I'd never been with anyone for longer than 2 weeks and that's all I saw happening with us, but 5 years later we're engaged and I was very wrong!!! I think the main reason is we hit it off so well and we became really good friends, you might not be looking that far into the future but you've got a really good basis if you're friends already. You'll never know if you don't ask and you'll regret it forever so go for it, and try not to worry too much :)
2006-12-08 07:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Hedgehog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably worried that she may turn you down.My advice to you is to ask her out,if you dont ask you will never know. You sound like a really kind & sensitive guy. It really doesn't matter if she has had 5 boyfriends before,they were obviously not Mr Right. Who knows Mr Right may be YOU. good luck
2006-12-08 07:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go 4 it!!!
You never know you two might be the best together!!
But you are right to worry- you can never worry too much lol
2006-12-08 07:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just relax a little and let her know how you are feeling. She may feel the same and just like you be afraid to say anything about it because she doesn't want to loose your friendship, but you will never know if you don't say anything to her about it.
2006-12-08 07:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate you sound like me when I was your age. Chill out! relax ask her out and just see what happens! Yes your worrying too much!
2006-12-08 07:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you willing to sacrifice your friendship cause once you cross that line and become lovers there is no going back to being friends ! you have to make up your mind which is more important to you her for ever lasting friendship or potential love ?
2006-12-08 07:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by memo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 guys, **** me give me her number lol. Go with the flow, take it easy and see where it gets you. EVERY HOLE IS A GOAL MY SON ;o)
2006-12-08 07:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try, fail, try again... grow up, try, succeed, dump em, try again... that's the way it works kiddo!
2006-12-08 07:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Burkah Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooops, mistaken identity here....good luck kid :)
2006-12-08 07:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋