well basically there's this guy who is playing with my feelings
he acted as if he was my boyfriend making me feel special
dedicated all his time with me and seemed really nice
then he changes suddenly and ignores my calls/txts
going partying and only remembering me when he's drunk
i saw him today and confronted him asking what the hell is going on
he replied nothing and seemed like in a hurry
when asked if he still likes me/missed me he looks down to the floor and says yeah...
when i questioned where the affection he displayed before has gone, he gave me a pathetic hug
an excuse to avoid the conversation, he said he still got a hangover, too tired and his friends were waiting.
i asked when he will call or see me again, he said i'll tell you later.
and reminded me he didn't want a girlfriend
(i never said i wanted him to be my bf)
___
tonight i'll txt him saying thanks
and pretend i am going out with friends for a drink
then i'd only pick up his 2nd call
how does that sound to you??
2006-12-08 07:35:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have only kissed and hugged
No naughty business =)
2006-12-08 07:39:40 · update #1
Sad sad sad.
2006-12-08 07:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this guy is your friend you wouldn't have to play games to get his attention. Plus if doesn't call, at all, you will feel worse. Best thing to do would be to do one of two things: 1.) Tell this guy you want more than a friendship ( at least it sounds that way). or 2.) Stop wasting your time with a part-time friend. Not trying to be rude but, but a true friend would have invited you to the party. Don't play the game.
2006-12-08 07:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mike T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this guy mess with your feelings even if it is just abit of fun.
Go out and meet someone new and much better than him, im sure you can.
It might not be what you want to hear but it sounds to me that he is only after one thing and he does not care, it seems he spent all his time and energy just to get you into bed and because it hasnt happened he isnt to bothered anymore.
GOOD LUCK X
2006-12-08 11:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a normal thing for men to act in such ways...........pretty much when they tell you from the beginning im not looking for a relationship take it as it is, no matter how much you too hang out together, no matter how many times he calls it doesn;t mean anything else but that he wants you around for basically FUN TIMES..........not all men are the same And so keep that in mind. by him telling you he doesn;t want a girlfriend he's letting you know that he can call you only when he pleases, and accepts your call when he pleases as well. Now don;t lower your standards for a man........don't ever stoop to his level and if i were you i wouldnt bother texting him or calling him anymore, for us females its hard to ignore a man when we have strong feelings for them but the more they see us "*** kissing" and vulnerable to our emotions they take advantage of that, and so don;t let it happen babes............don;t pretend to be going out with his friends either b/c when they see that your now trying to get involved (with his friends )he will look at you as if your now trying to date one of his pals making you look like whore..........move on to someone better and worthy of , all us women are queens and should be treated like one :)
2006-12-08 07:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by S3xyCh1nk3y3y3z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why give him the satisfaction of a text? and what makes you think he will call tonight? he sounds like a jerk to me, and you should find a guy that will treat you with respect. if he doesn't want you to be his girlfriend then why are you wasting your time pursuing him? move on, it'll save you tons of heartache in the long run
2006-12-08 07:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're letting him call the shots
don't waste the text
you're a pretty girl
not only is he blind and stupid, he's obviously a waster
have more self respect and move forward
you want him to be ya BF even tho you tell us not
keep it honest if ya want honest advice
2006-12-09 05:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by benji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a game to me. STOP PLAYING! When playing a game there is always a WINNER ( him ) and a loser ( YOU ) Dont Lose. Just cut contact. And when he calls you just act like you dont know him and act like you are with another guy.
2006-12-08 07:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by remailer000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't mean to be harsh but it sounds like the guy's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you that.
No amount of games is gonna change his mind, if he wanted you he'd be with you. x
2006-12-08 07:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry
but you need to forget him
and move on
before you get even hurt more
he sound like an idiot
please forget him, for your sake
good luck
smile
your so pretty
2006-12-09 06:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a booty call to him and nothing more. He is playing you and if you want to play the game then do so...I wouldn't you should have more respect for yourself
2006-12-08 07:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just move on. It's obvious he doesn't want anything, and he's playing you and not being honest. I don't think he's worth the trouble.
2006-12-08 07:40:14 · answer #11 · answered by Blayzn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋