Me and my boyfriend who been goin out for a month and 10 days !!! answer please?

Question

me and my boyfriend been going out for a month he is really cute nice funny etc there are alot of girls who like him but i was fortunate to get him i call him alot and i think he gets annoyed by it and i always find some kind of way to argue with him i love him alot and i dont want to break up with him im scared that he will break up with me and i dont know how to keep him can you please tell me what to do .WHAT DO I DO ?

This christmas what can i get him hes 16 yrs old nothing to expensive tho please answer this

Answer 1

ok first calm down take a deep breath and relax this aint that hard
for the annoying him thing
1. calm down
2.dont get so wrapped up u forget who u r
3.quit callin him so much your probably givin him the wiggins
about the gift thing also not that hard
1. what r his interests?
2.dont get him some cutesy thing
3. straight up ask him what he wants
try your best not to let him tick u off with the arguments and with the gift giving thing he might say "oh i dunno"
cause thats how a lot of guys are they have something they really want but they dont know if its too expensive for the girl but i wouldnt recomend getting him anything too expensive cause he might get the idea that u are loaded and will want to make u pay for everything

Answer 2

Hi I would talk to him tell him what you are feeling and that your sorry for calling so much its that you miss hearing the sound of his voice and ask him why he doesnt call you I would be your self the person who he fell for a month ago tell him whats in your heart buy him a card and let the words in that help you I do that all the time to my hubby and he enjoys the little notes so just try to hold on and talk to him from the heart and I wish you all the luck in the world I know if you talk to him and tell him whats from the heart everything will work out


For christmas find out what he likes music cds movies or even cook something for him have a nice dinner to show him how much he means to you I hope I helped and (if you dont cook take him out ) show him you care!!!

Answer 3

Stop calling him so much and do you trust him?


I used to find a way to argue alot but i was young but hey if he didn't want to be with you he wouldn't so stop worrying let him be him and stop getting on him alot. Also your in love with him but y'all been together for an month. Do you two know what love means . Baby if you want this relationship to work you have to trust him . For get them other girls they just mad cause he with you and not them so act older then you age not an Lil girl. And maybe get him an love card saying your sorry for the way you been acting and a shirt or pants , anything.

Answer 4

Quit calling him too much and finding things to argue about. Be secure and confident in your relationship, not needy, and enjoy the most of the the time you spend with him, but surround yourself with friends and family, your own hobbies, other things you enjoy when you aren't together. I would think for a boyfriend of only a month maybe a CD or hat would be a good gift idea.

Answer 5

you might as well get him a cell phone so you can keep track of him 24 hours a day. either that or you can lighten up a little and give him some breathing room. he is 16, and you're probably right around that age range, you could not possibly know what love is yet.you need to givehim some space and not call him so much. as for the practical gift, get him something that has to do with what he likes. and you can keep it reasonable at walmart.

Answer 6

You're gonna mess it all up being too desperate to hold on. You give him the upper hand and a relationship should be even. You find reasons to argue with him, it sounds like, just in an attempt to secure him and ensure he is yours, but he will walk away if he doesn't respect you. You are old enough now to be more mature and less dramatic.

Answer 7

first of all, if you love him, and he loves you, then don't worry so much. don't be so clingy, and if you think you're bugging him, then you probably are. just give him a little space too. i'm not saying don't talk to him for a month, just don't crowd him. a little mystery on your end is a good thing too, it makes him wonder how you're doing, what you're doing, and gives HIM a reason to call YOU. and if you're focused on your life, then he will be focused on your life too, because you are. get a hobby or something to get ur mind off him.
just remember, he's with you cuz he likes you. you don't have to argue with him just to prove yourself. he likes you for a reason.

go to your local discount or department store, and look thru the men's colognes (the not so expensive ones, like bod) and pick one out that you'd like him to wear. give him that for christmas. u should be able to find something for around 5 bucks.

Answer 8

I think you're scared he'll dump you, so you call him alot. You may be pushing him away. Just relax, be yourself. If it's meant to last, it will.
For Christmas, I wouldn't go overboard. Maybe a card saying what the time has meant to you that you've spent together. Treat him to a meal out. I'm sure he does all the treating, being a guy.

Answer 9

I have the same situation...you have to control your urge to call him. Some guys dont like to have a clingy girlfriend. Also, stop arguing with him. Guys dont like to argue all the time. I stopped arguing with my boyfriend and 2 weeks later he told me that we havent argued and he would like to keep it that way. All I can tell you is to give him space. A lot of guys like that.

And for his present, since he is 16 maybe you should get him like a game stop gift card, or a t shirt.

Answer 10

Talk 2 him and always let him know that you love him. & Try not 2 argue 2 much with him.

for a christmas gift, how about a shirt or a watch. Or a simple chain with a pendant.