Please, she has two kids that love her so very much and no one can find her. What do I do??? She has been missing for over a year now. I cant find her and the police wont do anything about it. Please what should I do. If there is a GOD out there, WHERE ARE YOU????????????????????oh man. I HATE DRUGS>>
2006-12-08 07:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As a former Meth addict, I too dissapeared from the only people who loved me and cared for me to run the streets with friends, do dope and crash and burn. I am back home again, but it was about a year and half long struggle. Let me tell you, Meth causes you not to care...Meth makes you feel as if no matter what you have to be responsible for there will be no consequences for your actions. Whatever you say goes...it eats away at your soul..its a drug in which if you decide you want better for yourself and whatnot, you normally have to sink very low into darkness and hit rock bottom before you even realize theres a problem. I know alot of people who are on Meth and they have kids, and its very depressing to see...I am sorry and I wish there was more to be done to help...but your sister wouldn't listen probably even if you knew where she was. She is gonna have to come back on her own after the drug has taken its toll on her. I hope she comes back and my prayers are with you and your family...Drugs have the power to destroy lives and Meth is the worst one of them all...I'm so sorry you're going through this. Be there for your sisters kids....they need it so much.
2006-12-08 07:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by TheHottestChristinaYouKnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to here this story.The first thing you should do is make sure the children are safe, and feel wanted.And that they only here positive things about there mom.You have to stay positive and strong. keep bothering the police,eventually they will do something,to get you off there back.Find the people she usually runs with and ask if they know anything,That will lead you in the right direction.Check with welfare offices to see if she has applied for Social Assistance.Show her picture to local drug dealers to see if they know or have heard of anything.And as bad as this sounds, Fax her most recent picture to local or state morgue,or homeless shelters.The chances are she is not using her real name,and she probably does not know she has been gone that long.Ihope you find her!!!
2006-12-08 09:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by rush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully there is absolutely nothing you can do. If you go after her - it will drive here away. My husband is a meth addict in recovery - it took years and years and years of him using before he finally decided he was mentally and spiritually bankcrupt. At the time we were friends - no matter what anyone said or what anyone did to try to help - it pushed him farther away. The best thing you can do right now - is to do what is right for you and those kids and to set a good example for her to follow if she ever returns from the depths of hell.
2006-12-08 08:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 15 yr. old son, is using meth too...and has done a dissappearing act as well. Prayer is all you can do. Trust God to protect your sister and bring her back home. This is out of your hands, it is a choice that your sister has made. In the meantime, I would put the word out in the streets, to her friends...or ANYONE that might have contact with her now or in the future, that she is missed, loved and welcome back home, regardless of her current condition. This way if she realize's that she needs or wants help, she will know that she can find it, in her family. I hope this helps, please dont get discouraged....I know that it is hard. I will be praying for your sister daily, when I pray for my son. GBY
2006-12-08 07:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need support? Try your local Al-Anon group. It's an organization based on the same principles of AA but instead it's intended for family members of addicts. They focus on the 3 C's. You didn't cause the addiction, you can't cure the addiction, but you can cope with the addition. It's worked wonders for a lot of people, and most importantly teaches you that you can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped.
2006-12-08 08:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by misha422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My aunt has been missing since 1992. She left to go on vacation with her boyfriend and we never heard from her again. The boyfriend is now in prison for murdering some other girl- we're sure she's dead and we want it investigated, but the cops won't do anything. Sometimes they just can't be bothered. My prayers are with you.
2006-12-08 07:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a God and things are done in his time, and for the best.
2006-12-08 07:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go to the cops and have a fit and if they still cant find her she might have died and no one found her....im so sorry to hear that
2006-12-08 13:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by kylie_b05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋