can a married man go to bankok thailand without being unfaithful??

Question

my hubby was there for 3-4 days well his in the Marines,and their ship had to make a stop there to get food they were on theeyre way home from Iraq,but i heard that it was a bad place.. He had told me some bad stories he heard.what do you think are the chances of a married man/marine to stay faithful when being over there.I trust him 100%,but you never know.I didnt have to ask him if he had done something bad while he was over there.he told me he didnt do any of the things that some guys did while they were there..

Answer 1

As a guy I take offense to the question. Yes there are lots of go-go bars with pretty girls etc. But a faithful guy can control himself anywhere - no different than if he went to strip clubs with his friend sin the USA. THere are sex places everywhere in the world for people who want that sort of stuff - but no one makes anyone participate.

The reason I get upset - is that my ex-wife always thought I was being a 'bad boy' when I went to Thailand for business for the same reasons - and it made me upset she did not trust me. Finally - I took her there for vacation and she realized it was not a big deal. I even took her to a go go bar - she realized it is just a bar where girls ask guys to buy them drinks - but most customers leave alone.

Answer 2

What are the chances? Since you trust him and he was no that way before you married him. Right? Then why worry. Being in a war can change a man. If he's changed then you might question it. If not, let it alone and enjoy the fact he's back. If he'a beer drinker then he might have seen some of the stuff. There is enough things to do and see in Bangkok with out seeing or doing the "bad" stuff. The so-called bad stuff are in isolated areas of Bangkok and Bangkok is an area of 10,000,000 people of which a small portion are engaged in the "bad" stuff. He might have walked through it just to see what it was all about. It can be entertaining to see. Now, that I think about it, I don't recall seeing any Marine types in those areas when I have been near those areas. So, I would not worry.

Like I said enjoy the fact he is back, alive and well.

Good luck and thank him for the job he is doing for the United States.

Answer 3

My guess is that he did not... I used to travel here, Thailand, on business both with my wife and alone. Yes, we were aware of the scene, but it was just not my scene... During the time that I was married, I never indulged during my travels and I don't think I was being a wimp etc.. I was a married man and that was that.. I would say that you should keep trusting him and not ask alot of questions and throw distrust into the relationship - - he has to assume that you are faithful when he is away too, you know - - you wouldn't be the first lady to ditch her military husband - - and just think how you might feel if he questioned you abt your morality when he was away... so, if that is your agreement, then you must assume that he honored it.. not only is it possible, but likely that he did..

ps - I live here now, in Thailand, and most of the people above have no idea - - I have never ever ever had someone knock on my door etc.. but people like to talk bad abt Thai. - a lovely country w/wonderful people - - but people talk as if all the evils of the world live here [ and none in their hometown?]

Answer 4

How many of these posters here actually live in Thailand? All this talk with the Aids. Thailand is no different than any other country in the world and being paranoid about getting aids just because it is Thailand is ridiculous.

For those of us that do live here and have lived here for a long time, the sex industry is alive and well. Who do you think the overwhelming majorities of the customers are? Not Thais thats for sure.

Of course they are all foreigners.

Go to Pattaya anytime a military ship is in port and watch how that city transforms itself overnight. The town is overun my military people and the gogo bars are full of soldiers.

Whether your hubby did or did not is anyone's guess, but my guess is you would not be posting here if you did not suspect he did something. You are looking for positive stimulation from posters that know nothing about life here, to shore up the fact that want to believe your husband is faithful to you.

Any guy, especially military guys that said my friends all went but I did not, if full of themselves. Military guys are all a band of brothers and where they buddies go they go.

But I ask youself this question? If your hubby was gone for 6 months and Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise or Keanu Reeves showed up at your house what would you do?

Just because it is Thailand and the women here are incredibly sex, physically fit and friendly to beat all does, not mean it this would not happen anywhere else in the unviverse.

Too many people blame Thailand for too many things and it is ignorant because they base these opinions on coming here for a week or two out of their whole lives.

Thailand, sure it is easier to get girls than anywhere in the world, but that does not mean anything.

If you want to post to ask questions about your husbands fideltiy, you already know the answer.

Counting on replies from a bunch of people of Yahoo to shore up your feelings is not going to resolve this issue or provide the answers you are looking for.

Answer 5

Yes he can stay faithful. If you trust him 100% . I have spent about 6 months in Thailand. Around the areas where there is a lot of nightlife. Thailand has many things to offer other than sex for 3 or 4 days

Answer 6

If a man have some sexual pleasures with others doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It doesn't mean being unfaithful as well.

In Thailand, as far as I know and based on my own experience having had the chance to travel to Bangkok and ChiangMai. The ladies often knock the door of your hotel room for some sort of a service - whatever that means. Most of them as young as 15 years old. So, if he can resist the temptation, he is good. Most of the men I know can't anyway.

Good luck!

Answer 7

I'm a married man living in Bangkok, Thailand and I am 100% faithful to my wife. There are thousands upon thousands of women available to me... if I wanted them. No foreign man in Bangkok sleeps alone unless he wants to.

That said, I love my wife and have no interest in the hordes of women that may have an interest in me.

So, to answer you question, sure a married man can go to Bangkok without being unfaithful.

Answer 8

Married man and faithfulness (fidelity) has nothing to do with Bangkok/Thailand. It can happen anywhere. It's up to, and in the individual. Good that you trust him 100%, and let the trust stays that way.

Answer 9

He can and the Marines encourage it. That doesn't mean he did it just means that if he is inclined not to he likely didn't.

Temptation is only temptation for the weak. If you think of him as a strong individual than he can resist any temptation unless it is forced on him. (Slipped some drugs or something)

Hope that helps.

Answer 10

because of fact she shall we him. He has no consequenses to stand. He additionally might might desire to lots to unfastened financially if he has been married for a protracted time. i'm in a concern the place my bf keeps going back to his spouse each and each time we've a combat or he doesnt like something i do. This has long gone on for 10 months. I dont think of he might proceed his habit if his spouse didnt continuously call and beg him back. He feels to blame so he is going and trys to make the marriage artwork--it in no way lasts extra effective than a week or 2 and then he needs to return back to me. i think of the only way any guy will end their habit with you is to place a end to it your self. He cant cheat on you in case you arent with him anymore. yet bear in techniques that he will consistently cheat --however the subsequent time it wont be on you.