pretzel position with his arm under his leg. I am shocked!!! To say the least. I think he knows I caught him. He turned around just as I took off down the hall. We haven't spoken all day. I am upset my Jerkins hand lotion has been disappearing; now I know why. Should I break the silence? Make a joke about it? Pretend it didn't happen, or what? Stupid "Girls Gone Wild" caused all this drama. Can't we girls stop flashing our goods for the sake of little brothers world wide?
2006-12-08 07:17:21 · 38 answers · asked by Sweet Polly Purebred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is natural for boys to masturbate just sit down with him and explain first that it is natural thing but that to only do this in the privacy of your own home and that the girls he sees don't do that publicly...
The only thing that I would worry about is if he has seen a purely nude girl and boy having sex "Girls gone Wild" is light and is not to explicit, and to be Masturbating to that he may get the wrong idea.
Everyone worries about this stage of life but don't it is easier than potty training.
2006-12-08 07:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is how he got ahold on the DVD. Plus that DVD wasn't made for 12 yearolds. You act like they did made it just for him. He's going to a time where he has sexual feeling for women, but talk to him to get him to the right path. And masturbation is normal for a boy his age.
2006-12-08 11:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have a 14 year previous daughter and a 17 year previous son. they have seperate rooms thou. My childrens admire each and each others privateness. i believe you will possibly desire to be extra assertive and tell your sister which you opt for extra privateness once you're bare and he or she is to no longer enter the bathing room / lavatory once you're in there. i think of you will possibly desire to talk on your father and mom too and convey the will on your individual area. Your sister is somewhat immature for a 20 year previous female. (she needs to strengthen up) and alter into the older good sister!
2016-10-14 07:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is normal. He's probably embarassed that he was caught. There's no reason to tell your parents so they can have a talk with him. That will only encourage him to think that normal sexuality is something to be ashamed of. Just hide your lotion and get over it.
2006-12-08 07:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by LambiePie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ewww....
If it wasn't 'Girls Gone Wild' it would have been the bra and panties section in the Sears catalogue. Boys will be boys and nothing will stop them from doing what they do best!
I'd just pretend it didn't happen for the little guy's sake. He's probably embarrased by it enough so no need to make jokes.
Although, it sounds like you may be just as traumatized by the event as he may be!
2006-12-08 07:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by edawns 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well i think it's a normal thing for a human being to do, because he's only 12yrs old You see it as being nasty, but even for yourself im sure you been there and d0ne that. and so don't hold anything against him thats part of growing up, sometimes my brother whos also 12 takes long and i mean long showers and all though we somewhat think he might be doing the same thing we make fun of him being in there for too long.
2006-12-08 07:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by S3xyCh1nk3y3y3z 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
~A pretzel position?
His arm under his leg masturbating furiously?
Your jergins hand lotion has been disappearing and now you know why?
You've got to be kidding.
TOO funny! lol~
2006-12-08 07:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what your brother is doing is pretty normal and do not joke about it just tell him you will respect his privacy in future, and then do it, you will come across as a very mature understanding person who he can trust, BUT do not break that trust you may need it your self some day
2006-12-08 07:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When you see him just say"sorry I caught you but its no big deal". There,your broke the silence,apologized for catching him(even tho he shouldve locked the door) and let him know its cool. Cuz it is cool cuz Im sure you do it too.
2006-12-08 07:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by ineedsumlovin 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Awww,,,I have empathy for you! That has never happend to me, but I understand where your comming from. I say ignore it. It will only make matters more akward if you talk about it. Besides.....do you really need to know he masterbates anyway? Thats his business. I say you just buy him some baby oil for christmas.
2006-12-08 07:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋