I swear everytime I get around my GF's little friends, they're always giving me these i wanna f*ck you signals especially when she leaves the room or we find ourselves alone. ESPECIALLY when theres drinks involved. It's hella tempting too because they're pretty hot and theres a sort of sexual thrill tension because we know its wrong. I feel like I'm gonna nsap soon & give in. And I dont wanna tell her because i dont wanna start drama or break up any friendships even though I think she knows some of her friends have been eyeing me because she gets really clingy when they come around.
2006-12-08 07:14:30 · 19 answers · asked by c_wilson2k5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All girls know that they should not leave friends alone with their bf, girls are mean and will backstab a friend or 2 to get what they want. If your serious about this girl, dont cheat on her, try talking to her friends and see what the prob. is, if nothing changes you should def. talk to ur girl, she deserves to know what kind of friends she has
2006-12-08 07:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by ReRe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, she could be testing you, you know, LOL.......I'd try them. some chicks bark more than the bite so I would actually call their bluffs, see how they react if they do anything, some women are just flirtatious like that, they can't help it. I think it's sad because they should get their own man, but they always end up trying to steal their friends man. if you GF gets clingy it's because she's probably experienced that before or got her man stolen from one of them. either way, if you truly love this girl, I would tell her, because there's no sense in keeping it in. let the drama end at that. unless you wanna keep your options open, which someone might do and give me an excuse of not wanting drama. you're a guy, I would do the same if I knew I could keep my options. but if I loved my woman, I would tell her because she trusts me so there
2006-12-08 07:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by puertorock882003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call these girls good friends. If you love your girlfriend then don't be flirting back. Why would you hurt your girlfriend by messing around with someone she considers a friend. Stay clear and watch you own P's & Q's. If you really care about your girlfriend I'd give her a heads up and let her know what girls are coming on to you. She can make the decision to talk to them or weed them out.
2006-12-08 07:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two possibilities here (1) your girl and her friends are settiing you up to see if you're a dog. (2) Her girls are the dogs and you are suffering from a case of,"sometimes a dog don't know he's a dog til he knows he's a dog." Do you honestly think all of them are trying to get with you at the same time? I mean there would be atleast one that is like," this aint right" and would not participate. Your arrogance is going to get you caught up.
2006-12-08 07:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by wildblackflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to set you up, and dont fall for it. Either that, or they are trying to get to you, or trying to break you and your girlfriend apart. I say tell your girlfriend the truth of how her friends are doing, and tell her that you dont feel right when they are around, and they better calm down, and tell them whats up too. If you dont want any problems afterwards, you need to consult it with your girlfriend, before she gets the wrong idea.
2006-12-08 07:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by ThexSilentxOnex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion, if these so called "friends" are flirting with you... then they really aren't friends to your g/f at all. If these females are willing to "steal" their friend's man... do you think that they are really worth having a fling over? Obviously these girls aren't trustworthy.
Put the shoe on the other foot... how would you like YOUR friends pushin up on YOUR girl? Everyone knows about it EXCEPT you? Ponder that for awhile.
2006-12-08 07:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by _Savage_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women see a challenge in getting their friends b/f, if you want to be a trophy then go for it, but you should know the friends will tell your girlfriend about it
2006-12-08 07:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to distance yourself from the girlfriends. If she changes when the two of you are around her friends she knows what they are capable of. If you want to have a jump off dump your girlfriend first. Don't break her heart by doing it dirty.
2006-12-08 07:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're being tempted then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship. Why be in one, if you're wanting other girls, or not sure if you're going to give in.
And damn, those aren't really her friends if they would do that to her.
2006-12-08 07:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe your best course of action would be, establish and understanding with them if you have a good woman don't throw it away on account of lust. let them see how committed you are to her and you are not interested, and you consider all of the teasing flirts are just that .be smart keep your woman, honesty and trust are hard to come by.
2006-12-08 07:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by kathy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋