i broke up with this chic a year ago. We dont talk anymore. She just want doing it for me. I saw her at a bar last night with her man playing poker (which i got her into) anyways she ignored me and i walked up and said hi and she said hey thats all. Do you people cut all contact and try to avoid eachother? Is it strange not to talk to her more than just saying hi? Felt weird not to say much more than hi
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Also spotted her in another bar sat night but she ignored me. I tried to do the friends thing but she was in love and kept trying to keep me. so the thing i did was just cut all ties.
2006-12-08 07:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by aligrespeq 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she acts like that she's just tryin to get you back for leavin her. i know this becuase i used to do it even though the guy didnt break up with me i broke up with him. shes tryin to make you jelous.
2006-12-08 07:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by lala crazy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you said she wasn't' doing it for you; this is what you wanted. Think about it: she's doing the bare minimum and being polite. Why should she want to talk to you more? You cut all ties. Do both yourselves a favor; when you see her next, just keep going.
If I, on the other hand, saw my ex around town (unlikely since I've moved to another state), I'd run up to him and introduce him to my husband. I'd give him a "You only wish you could be this happy" look. He was a selfish a** hole.
2006-12-08 07:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A polite acknowledgement is all that's necessary. Stop going to places she goes if it really bothers you to run into her. Sounds like you haven't given up on your "defunct" relationship yet. If she did the break up, move on and get a life....if you did, ask her politely if you may call her sometime to discuss "an important matter"
2006-12-08 07:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by superbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I see my ex around town, he is a jerk to me like always.(That's why I broke up with him.) Once I was doing a project and he came over and wrecked it. Now I don't talk to him anymore.
2006-12-08 07:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i see my ex sometimes but its a little differnt for me we have a baby together but if it wasnt for that i would just forget about her and move on with my life if not you will get hurt shes moved on and so should you if you see her just act like she isnt there or just leave save yourself the heartach man hope i helped ya
2006-12-08 07:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by candyman4092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her for a cup of coffe
2006-12-08 07:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by vandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's avoiding u, maybe she's hurting. UR the 1 who broke up w/ her to my understanding. she's avoiding u cuz she doesn't wanna b hurt again.
2006-12-08 07:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by daughterofgod4evah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's what I do to my ex's. Hell I moved to another state to keep from running into my last ex.
2006-12-08 07:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...!
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2006-12-08 07:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same she's doing and maybe she'll see that it's not bothering you and it'll bother her and she'll want to talk to you.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-08 07:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lil' Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋