I am not the way I used to be at the beggining. Now I am more jealous of him and do not trust him. He has never cheated or that's what he says but he lies and hides things.
2006-12-08 06:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by Lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship will only work & be enjoyable if you both are honest. The only thing you can really do is be open with him about how you feel & why you feel that way. If he loves you, he will want to work things out & negotiate your relationship together. It's not a good thing if he's lying & hiding things from you even if he's not cheating. Him doing these things is what is bringing your jealousy out. You have to understand, though, that by being jealous, you are only hurting YOURSELF. It makes you feel horrible. Try your best to let it go for your well being. Hope this helps.
2006-12-08 07:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lies and hides things, no wonder you don't trust him. You have to talk to him about the importance of trust in a relationship. If you don't have that, you are in trouble. As for being jealous, be careful -- sometimes that scares the other person away, if you are overly jealous and possessive. A little jealousy is natural.
2006-12-08 07:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you loose trust in your partner there obviously a reason for that. If he is secretive and you have caught him in a lie once or twice, chances are you are dealing with someone who is dishonest and does not respect you or your relationship.
When two people enter into a committed relationship it's important to have common sense, boundaries. love respect and honesty. If you want an improvement take the following steps:
1)Sit your boyfriend down and have an honest talk.
2)Be specific about things that bother you about the situation.
3)Be calm and not abusive or insulting or he will get defencive and nothing will get resolved.
4)Ask him if he still feels the same about you and if there is someone else in his life that he is seeing romantically.
You must be prepared for the truth and no matter how much it hurts you should not be with someone who will not be loyal to you, love and respect you, better to end a bad relationship then suffer through it. Maybe he is not the one for you.
Have courage darling! Hope it works out, and Good Luck.
2006-12-08 07:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy with yourself first.
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2006-12-08 07:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this question than you probably know, or at least suspect, what the answer really is. You should never have to worry about either person in a relationship cheating. There are enough trials and tribulations in a relationship. If you truly suspect him of these things there is probably a reason.
2006-12-08 07:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by ihatecankles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lies. He hides things. Looks like HE needs to do the improving, not you. Sweetie, you need to stop assuming responsibility for his wrongdoings. The best thing you can do to improve your situation is to move on. A relationship is supposed to make you feel better, not worse.
2006-12-08 07:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i can give......... is that if u can't trust him and your not happy then end the relationship. It's nothing worse than being with someone if your not happy, don't stay because you've guys have been together for a while, but if you truly love him than work on it.
2006-12-08 07:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give him a reason to, be a filthy little whore for him in bed, fulfill his every fantasy and he wont have a reason to cheat. Thats why guys cheat because theres something missing in the bedroom trust me.
2006-12-08 07:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by c_wilson2k5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship sounds as though it is missing an important element...trust. Without it, no relationship can be improved.
2006-12-08 07:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous says it all time too move on be happy!
2006-12-08 07:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋