like now days ive become a very quite n serious person im 16 and i dont know why im only hyper when im with my friends, at my job their always bothering me cuz i look mad but i dont its juss da i look serious, and i dont like to play around cuz i my vice manager is so annoying n conceeded in everyway. it hard to tell when he is serious or not....why do they care if i smile at them or not?
2006-12-08 06:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by dusty l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes always saying that im so young and pretty to be looking so serious, but its that i just dont really like the peaople in my job their juss like me one day pissed and the nest tlkin to me.. i dont need people like that!lol sounds stupid its makin me so annoyed!
2006-12-08 06:59:28 · update #1
oooh yeah sry for the bad spelling.
2006-12-08 07:00:26 · update #2
no i post my problems here bcuz i dont know this people so i dont care about the ans...u stupid insecure person!
2006-12-08 07:01:44 · update #3
Because it's easier to deal with someone else's problem than our own!
2006-12-08 06:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Being Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~I used to be the exact same way when I was your age! Everybody that knew me, knew that was just the way I was, strangers thought I was mad all the time.
The reason for the face was all the alcoholics coming and going in our house and my mom was drunk all the time too, so she couldn't handle the situation, I had to.
The only thing I could do is put on an angry face and make it as unpleasant as possible to those people so they wouldn't want to be there.
I'm not like that anymore, it took a lot of medication and counseling to realize it and get over it.
If you are working with the public, it's very important to smile and be friendly. If you can't get passed it, you might want to find a job that doesn't involve the public?
Peace and good luck.~
2006-12-08 15:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot to think why people usually butts in to other person's problem.
Some thinks they are so superior or intelligent, thinking they know all the answer. Some feels that they have this talent as a psychologist that they know what you feel. Here's the most interesting thought... Most of the people who butts in ones problem, are those who can not solve their own.
If I were you don't mind them. Smile when you feel like it and concentrate on work. One thing I can say... maybe it much good to smile it is healthier for you and the people around you...
2006-12-08 15:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Raine Ssshhh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are 16, an age where you show respect to no-one.. You don't have a clue what you are protraying to these people. If you look mad all the time, what are they supposed to think? If you don't like the people you are working with, get another job. don't whine like a baby. Give them a break, they aren't wrong, you are with your crappy attitude. Quit acting like a spoiled brat. If you are like typical 16 year olds, you think everyone else has a problem, not you.
2006-12-08 15:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by cityleaguefootballmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you just ever wondered why someone looks down?
Have you just ever wondered what you could do to make someone happier?
If not, try it sometime. It just might make you feel a little better.
It's human behavior to be curious.
As a note, at 16 you still have a lot of learning and growing to do so no matter what type of answers you get here...nothing is going to make you happy. Wait for the experience of age, it does wonders.
2006-12-08 15:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by PK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am also only hyper with people I feel comfortable with, too. Just tell everyone that your tired and your serious at work. They only care because they probably think you hate your job and that you don;t like any of them. Maybe if you start being more friendly, you could possibly be hyper.
2006-12-08 15:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to inquire of one if they look down. I used to get that all the time, then I realized that even just a little smile every now and then works wonders.
2006-12-08 14:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they're your friends and they want to know who put the stick up your *** and you need to learn to type there is plenty of room you just have to know how to spell
and if they ask they probably care but at the same time people get a little self grattification out of helping others in need
but lighten up , learn to type, and be a little happier and a little less serious
you're sixteen it's your time to get in trouble and get away with any thing short of murder
take advantage of it or you'll regret it later
2006-12-08 15:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm experiencing the same thing. People need to accept you the way you are. If they don't, then just ignore their reactions and continue being yourself. If they're not at peace with you, then at least you're at peace with yourself, and that's all that really counts.
2006-12-08 15:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like on this site
2006-12-08 14:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by gia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋