i absolutely hate it if my girlfriend happens to bring up a sexual experience with one of her ex boyfriends. i could be in the best mood ever and it will instantly turn sour. i tell her that i don't want to know that stuff because i just want to think about her and i. i told her she never needs to bring it up because i will never ask about it. is this normal to not want to know? at least for guys?
2006-12-08 06:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok first off i'm a girl so this may seem differant from your point of view but here it goes. I think it is normal because if you think about it then it can lead to you assuming stuff and accusing her of stuff when really its your way of showing you care by not wanting to dwell on the past but on the present. i think you are a good guy for putting up with it as long as you have and if she really cares about you she will stop so just sit down and explain that to her and see what happens
2006-12-08 07:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by hot_pink_gurl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal.. there are some things she needs to just keep to herself. If you were curious weather or not she had tried something.. you would ask.. otherwise, you don't need to know. Unless the reason she is mentioning it is to try to tell you that she wants to try something different with you, it kinda depends on what she is saying. There are better ways to bring it up. That must put a terrible picture in your head. I would talk to her about it again.
2006-12-08 15:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are feeling that you might be compared to them and in a way that is like a personal attack. tell your girl friend that that was then and this is now, and you do not appreciate her talking about the "good old times" because that is how you probably take it. so just tell her you do not need to hear about her past
2006-12-08 15:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.I don't think you are wrong.Those details are best left out unless you both are comfortable talking about it.That was then and this is now.I agree with you.
2006-12-08 15:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by CML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you are not inquisitive in others personal matter. if it is so you are right. you need not want to know that. but be happy that she is open to you even in her persomal maters. she has given her full self on trusting you.
2006-12-08 15:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋