2006-12-08 06:50:10 · 27 answers · asked by platinum baller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww....how sweet! u are doing step #1, which if find out what to do to be Better.
that is Awesome.. u should be proud of urself. i see that u are someone who takes initiative and is willing to Learn and has the ability to change for the Better all things in your life, whether work, school, relationships, Whatever! good for you~~!
now, my suggestion would be to just work on Yourself. ur confidence, ur appearance, ur mind, ur family relationships, friend relationships, and being a Good Person. u need to be as all around as u can.. so throw urself into Work, School, Learning, Hobbies, Activities. the more capable u are at All things, the more u have to offer to ur relationship. also, the less "dependent" or "jealous" u will be towards her (insecurity causes a lot of jealousy problems). u need to work on being a Trustworthy, Honest, Respectful and Respecting MAN. a Man knows how to take care of himself, of his girlfriend, and to make Good Decisions that affect both of u guys. Also, u need to learn how to Listen, Communicate, and Respect your girlfriend and be open to changing anything negative for the Better of the Relationship.
as long as u can keep an open mind, be a Good Leader while Respecting her position and ideas, and cultivate ur ability to take care of her in a Positive, Healthy and Happy manner, u will be great!
2006-12-08 06:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be considerate,be honest pay attention to what she says and how she feels, tell her how you feel... does not have to be mushy all the time but a simple i love you everyday or "you look really pretty today", don't smother her but let her know that you want her around, ask her out on dates even if you have been together for years, make her laugh and be comfortable with her. Be yourself because that is probably who she loves. Make her feel like she is the only girl in the world, be faithful, keep your space and don't rush anything. When she wants to talk about an issue listen and talk about it with her. Don't belittle her or make her feel inferior but be a man and make her feel safe. Cuddle after sex, although it is over for you and you want to roll over and go to sleep she is still feeling romantic and needs a little more time. Most of all just love her and make sure she knows it.
2006-12-08 15:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can tell you that you should be a good listener, first of all, faithful and honest also helps. Showing her alot of respect and affection especially around other females will definitely score you points. Being a good boyfriend consist of just being a best friend but with perks. Good luck, Baller.
Smiley, Bronx, NY
2006-12-08 14:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good boyfriend. I am glad you ask. I am a woman and these are things that I would enjoy. Watching movies @home or theatre. flowers every couple weeks. even cheap ones due it doesnt matter the price. Talking. Dinner. Cook her dinner. Or just a gettaway for the weekend. Hope these help.
2006-12-08 14:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do for her is to be considerate. Do things for her that she is not expecting. one time i had a school project due the next day and i was up all night working on it. at like 3:00 in the morning my boyfriend showed up at my house with donuts and coffee and was ready to keep me company. i will never forget that.
2006-12-08 14:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give her affection, and do cute, sweet little things for her, you will melt her heart. My bf drew a heart and wrote "Love You" on a napkin and handed it to me, I've kept the thing for 16 years. He also gave me a stuffed heart that said "You're my Sweetheart," I loved that too so much. On Easter he gave me an Easter basket, that was so adorable of him. Also just cuddling up on the couch or in bed is wonderful and brings you closer emotionally. Just say, "Come here, baby" and take her in your arms. If you do these little things, before you know it, she will adore you, if she doesn't already! Any thoughtful gesture that shows you're thinking of her or care for her will please her. Its easy! When you love someone, these things come naturally.
2006-12-08 14:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good boyfriends have fat wallets and do whatever she wants. I prefer to be a ok boyfriend rather then a foot stool.
2006-12-08 14:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, be faithful, know what she likes and don't like, don't bother her when she on her period, don't cheat cuddle if she likes that, leave if she's a gold digger, don't cheat, little things matter, don't bring up the past, express youself and emotions, don't cheat, hold her purse if she asks you to, talk to her, did I mention don't cheat?
You live and learn....all females are different.
2006-12-08 14:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by A. Tarayana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard this advice on a Dr. Phil show, (I know its cheesy) but it makes a great deal of sense. He said that men should treat their girlfriends/wives how they would want someone to treat their mother/sister/daughters. Hopefully you would want someone to open doors for them, protect them, value their opinions. thoughts, feelings, etc.
2006-12-08 14:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by yankeeadrienne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
compassion.
women like to know that a guy likes them and adores them. be affectionate. thats the key.
course flowers or chocolate couldnt hurt too.
but if u ever date a girl that has issues with her body, dont give chocolate. she'll think ur making fun of her weight.
2006-12-08 14:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋