I am a first time mom of a 3-years-old. I am very concern for my 3-years-old dauther because my husband and my 14-years-old step-son smoke pot. I've just learned it last night. My suspicious was confirmed last night they yes they both smoke pot. And they've been doing it for the past few weeks.
What should I do? Should I just leave them alone and let them do their thing? Am so scared for my 3-years-old daughter co'z my step-son is not been very good at her. He never treat her like his sister. I'm scared that when he's high on pot, he might hurt my daughter and me when his dad is not home.
Can anyone give me advice on what to do. Thank you.
2006-12-08 06:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by needsadvice01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For starters pot makes u mellow its when they come off the pot thats when a problem could exist and more so if they cant get ahold of any pot. If they smoke heaps mental problems become an issue watch for the signs. I hope they r not smoking it in the house.
2006-12-08 10:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave if you have these kind of concerns. Sounds like you got into a relationship that is not truly open and honest. What other issues are going to surface in the future.
Pot is not known to bring out any kind of unruly behavior, as a rule, but there is the possibility that after a while pot won't satisfy the need, and one of them may move on to bigger and better drugs.
2006-12-08 14:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by jerrycarr99029 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Good luck. Be careful and speak to your husband about this immediately! Because should the law ever show up, they will yank her out of there so fast and place her in protective custody, even if YOU are not doing anything.
I agree with you about the step-brother though. If he doesn't interact with her and hasn't formed a bond or any type of relationship, he most likely has no interest in her and only looks upon her as competition for Dad's attentions.
I would seek legal advice as well.
2006-12-08 14:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by dnalnn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep watch of your daughter around step son so that she doesnt get hurt. Smoking pot mellows you out, I dont see a concern.
2006-12-08 14:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would get my daughter away from the drugs, get full custody and tell the judge why you want full. You daughters life in way more inportant then drugs. A three yr old is a wonderful age, they are happy, curious, and wanting to find out what everything is, if she finds the drugs what would she do with it?
2006-12-08 15:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone to kick their arses....they need it. A father who lets his son smoke pot in front of a 3 year old child AND smokes it himself is the scum of the Earth.
Find a way to leave them and find yourself a proper man. They are out there.
2006-12-08 15:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋