ok don't get ittwisted, I love my mom and dad too death and would die and fight for them, but......whenever we are home and I am just chillin up in my room or asleep or just home chillin in general and they call my name. They can just be wanting to tell me something, it does not have to necessarily mean they need meto do something, but in any event when they call my name I get soooo ******* piss, I am talking rageing mad for no reason, and it can be anyone else who do the same thing and it will not even bother me at all. Why do I get that mad for no reason, like I said I love them to death but I just dont know what ticks me off when they call my name, pleas ehelp I am dieing to know what casues this. Thanks!!!!!!
2006-12-08 06:18:58 · 20 answers · asked by bandmember18 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you may be trying to be heard. When I was young I was abused and I tried to tell a few people(3 or 4) and they all shut me down very quickly. The rest of my life I have been getting pissed off like you are sayiung there. But it depends on who the person is more than the content of the statement as far as how pissed I get. If its someone that I feel SHOULD listen then I will get a lot madder than some punk, say in Y!As that doesn't matter anyways. I now have come to believe that the reason I was getting mad was because I learned at a very young age that no one wanted to hear me so I learned how to shock people to get their attention before speaking.
But that's just my story. That doesn't make it yours
2006-12-08 06:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Meatball ;) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know your age, I wd guess teens, and I am assuming a guy.
Pretty normal. It's hormone influx. Whether a guy or girl, it's not just physical changes that are brought on by hormones, but also your brain chemistry that is significantly altered. Emotions are affected by hormone rushes, so, when you get a little annoyed, the hormones kick in and send chemicals through your brain, and you become enraged. Over time, things will even out.
As well, psychologically, you are changing. If you are in your room chillin, maybe you want some privacy, and you don't like to be called away.
Maybe talk to your parents and explain you wd like some quiet time?
Chill, u r normal.
2006-12-08 06:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by inprimeform 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to go through the same thing, I call them anxiety attacks my doc called them panic attacks. It is some type of hidden anxiety you won't face so every little thing annoys you. Instead of tackling things that aggravate you head on, you rather brush them off, but they are still there just hidden. I use to have the worst attitude and got raging mad at everything but that was in my teens, and I think all teens are like this and it seems like you are young. Dont worry about it you will grow out of it, but until then you might want to sit down and figure out what is really bothering you and face it instead of taking out on people that didn't really do anything. There is nothing wrong you, you are not the only one who have these moments...
2006-12-08 06:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol...I can so relate to what you are saying. For some reason, whenever my mom would yell my name, I would get angry. I have no idea why, but I did. It just angerd me. I have a feeling if she did it now, I would have the same reaction. It's like some sort of pet peeve. And I thought I was the only one who had this problem.
2006-12-08 06:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young blood it sounds like your hormones. You are starting to be your own man and at a subconscious level they remind you that you are not one yet. The eventual outcome of maturity is self discipline - remember who they are - what they have done for you - that you can count on them anytime - and that in the end you are going to have to be there for them the way they were for you. Go give em a kiss you dog! Maybe they'll leave you alone for a while. Good luck.
2006-12-08 06:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be your age (I'm not sure how old you are). When I was a teenager, like other teenagers I've known, I had a short temper like you described. Hopefully you'll grow out of it. Tell your parents about it and explain you don't mean to react to them that way.
Either that or you feel they're interupting something you shouldn't be doing and you feel guilty.
2006-12-08 06:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you love your parents you are clearly angry with them about something even if you are not aware of it. Talk to them about it. Get it out in the open. Tell them you want to understand why it is happening. Go to some group counseling sessions.
2006-12-08 06:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to them. Just ask if they can come up and see you instead or something like that. Tell them you don't know why but when they call your name over and over you get really angry and you'd rather avoid that. If you're mature about it, I bet they'll try to make an effort to do something different.
2006-12-08 06:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by dontimaginetheyllallcometrue 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem too. but I found out that it was the fat that they worked me to death when I was a kid and when I I got to be a teen I wanted to chill. So just find something to cool your nerves,like think of how many months till you move out.
2006-12-08 06:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by The great green eve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hold a grudge against my mom cause growing up it wasn't that good but now we are more mature and get along better but when she calls my name I snap into how she used to talk to me mood and get an attitude with her...i don't know if you had anything bad like this in your past...but now if i get an attitude with her she gets sad...
2006-12-08 06:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋