I've never been cheated on. I can't pretend that I know what that feels like. But I do know from my own odservation that their not justified enough. I seen alot of man and woman who have been hurt cause their love one has cheated on them and they were told to move on there was nothing they can do. Which is true but i think they know that more than the person who is saying it. They feel it more. No matter what the person choose some1 esle other than them. Lending ear isn't given to them enough. For friends or relative would say "it sound like their over thinking it". Or just plan old sympathy is rejected to them, especially long term relationship that ended in cheating. If they do something crazy their wrong. It seem until you've been cheated on than you'll know how they feel. I feel with the world today cheating is nothing and what crazy is it's even expected. Like it shouldn't be a surprise. What do you think?
2006-12-08 06:15:53 · 10 answers · asked by Ms FabUlici 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The bottom line is that despite the hurt, humiliation and disgust, there's nothing to do BUT to move on. Wallowing in pity or talking about it for months and months doesn't do any good. Life goes on whether you're sitting home crying, or getting on with it.
2006-12-08 06:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating has been going on as long as relationships have been...people cheat for various reasons (none justified)...it's not necessarily expected and certainly not desired, but no...it tends not to be a surprise nowadays simply because a lot of people have no values and don't have an issue with being disloyal or lying as long as they get their instant gratification...
Sad but true.
2006-12-08 14:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay..coming from someone who has cheated for a year and a half......
people cheat because they do not love their partner. very plain and simple. it is not the norm, it is not acceptable. when you don't love the person you are with, you should move on and not waste the other person's time. the process of mourning of a cheating partner can and will take time. the other person can go on for years trying to rationalize what they did wrong to cause the cheating.
i am now happily married. i would never consider cheating on my husband. and from what he tells me, he would never cheat on me. cuz if he did...i would kill him. j/k. sort of.
2006-12-08 14:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are never justified. Period.
There are plenty of reasons to justify ending a marriage, but never cheating.
2006-12-08 14:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that people are not justified enough because people always take advantage of their love ones.
2006-12-08 14:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never to be justified.
2006-12-08 14:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are justified enough!
2006-12-08 14:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldn't say men cheat , they are just being guys that are having fun - i hope this helps you
2006-12-08 14:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should have chose the person more carefully before putting all their trust into them.. becaz trust is very valuable
2006-12-08 14:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are justified enough
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2006-12-08 14:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋