2006-12-08 06:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by thowbackyungin504 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's this woman I'm friends with and we're thinking about getting together but she has four kids and she said I don't have to do anything financially she just want me to spen a lil time with them and then there's the part she tell me some things about her past that makes me hesitant about getting with her as far as her running in the streets but she says she's a changed woman and all I can do is take her word.So what yall think I should do?
2006-12-08 06:23:34 · update #1
There's this woman I'm friends with and we're thinking about getting together.I don't have any kids but she has four and she said I don't have to do anything financially she just want me to spen a lil time with them and then there's the part she tell me some things about her past that makes me hesitant about getting with her as far as her running in the streets but she says she's a changed woman and all I can do is take her word.So what yall think I should do?
2006-12-08 06:24:43 · update #2
what does she say? how long have you known her? does their dads pay child support? if so just date for awhile and see how you fit in the big picture. it may or may not work. that all depends on how you feel about the children once you do get to know them. best wishes
2006-12-08 06:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright I got the idea that she is a parent of four, but what the heck did she say? Fact of live is that if she has four kids than you are not a youngster and as such must realize that it is pretty hard to find people your age that don't come with baggage and/or as a package. If you are interested in the woman than her having four kids should not be a big issue.
2006-12-08 14:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its up to you if you want to get together with this woman. I mean do you like have kids yourself too? Well how old is this woman? If shes over 40, dude, forget it, you might as well find another woman who don't have kids. Anyway, its up to you. Me I wouldn't.
2006-12-08 14:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that it is not every man that can help raise children that are not his own, in the beginning it is fine, but when the novelty wears off, and the arguments start, most people talk about 'your damn kids' and not 'our kids'....
2006-12-08 14:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Featherman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand she has 4 kids , but i would like to know what is the problem,,,,one thing...yes, it's tough living with kids that are not yours because you won't never have a say ....
2006-12-08 14:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt finish the question you said she sa? she what
2006-12-08 14:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by mizzbossy87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
said what? You didn't finish the question..
2006-12-08 14:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOUR kids? Run, man, run.
2006-12-08 14:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said "but".....move on and don't waste this woman's time.
2006-12-08 14:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that shouldn't matter go for it
2006-12-08 14:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋