a woman wrote my man saying
does it mean our friendship is over i am worried about you if you do not want to communicate with me anymore call me and let me know. i thought we had something special or thats what i thought if you have move on with your life i am happy but can we still be friends
and these woman he never told me about her and one time he called her at 2.00am.
2006-12-08 06:09:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love this line! "if you do not want to communicate with me anymore call me"
Sounds like he had a thing with her at some point and then told her he wanted to be friends.
2006-12-08 06:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like whatever he had going on with her is over now. It's completely up to you if you want to confront him...it does sound to me like there was something more than friendship going on though. If I were in that situation, I would probably keep a very close eye on him and see if things are weird or if he's acting goofy, and confront him when you're having a good day together. How long have you been together? It's definately not ok with me if my guy calls some chic at 2 am though...
2006-12-08 06:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more background.
But it sounds to me like a man broke up with a woman and she can't accept that fact and move on.
If he is calling at 2:00 Am, he is being sneaky- there is proabably a reason for that. He does not want you to know, so he has to sneak. He probably had something going on on the side.
2006-12-08 06:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, i know if i saw that letter i would be thinking first off y is she writing to him like that, then i would be like hmm.. what happen for her to write that in the first place. If they are just friends then y would she say "i thought we had somethign special", friends dont say stuff like that if there was nothing going on..friends with benifits do.. Basically sounds just how it sounds..then you gotta look at it as if you wanna confront him..and would you accept his answer, would you believe his answer. A woman's intuition is often right, you can tell that they werent in a relationship because she cant say it.. she can only call him a friend..its up to you hun..where you wanna go but you do relize that its ur hand to call.. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-08 06:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider Marcia. Why one earth could you submit this on the internet..? your very own love existence isn't some thing you'll be airing to style a committee to tell you the thank you to respond. that is approximately YOUR emotions and take on the undertaking, not some Q and A communicate board..! they have a asserting which works, 'you recognize why a camel seems the way it does..? because of the fact it grow to be designed via a committee who have been attempting to layout a horse...!"
2016-12-13 05:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by mcgarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what meaning you are reading into it but if it was me, I would feel threatened that I was going to lose him.
If you are just dating him, then he is allowed to see other people and to have friendships with other women. We should all meet and get to know more people before we settle down and choose a life partner. If you are sleeping together, it should be all settled that you are together and that you don't see other people. But sometimes we rush into sexual relationships before all the wrinkles are ironed out. Did you move to fast?
Sometimes it is hard for two people to break up. They keep trying to be together because they have a bond between them.
2006-12-08 06:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how did you know about this letter? Did he show it to you? If not, were you going through things that do not belong to you? It appears that you both are hiding things. He is hiding a relationship and you are hiding the fact that you go through his personl mail - not exactly an honest relationship is it? You might want to decide if you trust this person and if not - run a mile . Honesty must be one of the basics in any relationship.
2006-12-08 06:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Catharine B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sandy,
it sounds to me that they must have had some kind of relationship in the past and let go of her to be with you. the girl is sad that he left her but still wants to hold on to him a bit by "being his friend" i wouldnt worry too much about it but if you think foulplay look into it more. check his phone or call the girl if you can get the number, ask his friends if you can. ask him about it too. but if the looks left when he talks to you he is lying!
i hope i helped you a bit. :P
Summer
2006-12-08 06:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by summy625 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a "very special friend" if you know what I mean...
It certainly does not look or sound good...friends don't say those sort of things to each other, people that have dated, slept together, etc. have those sort of conversations...
Confront him about this...and good luck
2006-12-08 06:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by BLABLC71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it was more than a friendship - she says "I thought we had something special.... but we can still be friends" implying they can now be friends after whatever transpired. if he didn't cheat with her, then he led her on and it sounds like it was more than platonic. you need to discuss this with him and if he doesn't answer to your satisfaction you need to call this woman and find out what happened.
2006-12-08 06:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋