I just got off the phone with girl that I've been crazy about for the past few weeks. She called me to tell me that she couldnt go to a xmas concert this sunday and then I asked her if she was free to go bowling or to a movie or something on saturday instead, and she said "You know I have a boyfriend right?" Which I didnt know at all.
Anyhow, we have a college class together and the professor gave us some info that will come in quite handy on our final a day when she wasnt there. I'm about to email her the info, and i was wondering if I should sorta tell her how much I enjoyed our one "date" we had and that I'm glad we've gotten to be good friends and all that jazz as some "closure" to a relationship that never really was. SHould I?
2006-12-08 06:05:56 · 9 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her. But you should also include that you respect that she has a boyfriend and that you enjoy being friends with her. Girls like that .I should know, i am one. Unless she askes you out for a date,[ If they're broken up, mind you] you shouldn't press the issue. good luck!
2006-12-08 06:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sarissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone -- send her the info for school, which will show her you care, but saying anything else will make it awkward for the both of you. It will be awkward for her to come up with something to say, and awkward for you if she doesn't say anything at all. If she said, "You know I have a boyfriend, right?" then she's not interested and is trying to be nice about it. Just be a nice guy without being overbearing - such as sending her the school info. Sometimes saying nothing at all says more, ya know? It shows you respect her and her boyfriend (if she has one), which she will appreciate and think about in the future, maybe.
2006-12-08 06:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Laura C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything about the date otherwise you might be closing a door. Just tell her you wanted to make sure she had the information for class.
2006-12-08 06:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't worry about her, she is leading you on and is probably up to something. Go find yourself a nice girl that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her. Playing games is for 12 year olds. Don't do it and don't waste your time with a girl who leads you on.
2006-12-08 06:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...but don't get all heavy, just keep it casual so she doesn't think you're crazy, and if she does break up with her boyfriend, you may be there in the back of her mind.
2006-12-08 06:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she never told you that she had a bf untill that phone conversation well its she is not worth it but i woudl definetly tell her how you feel but why woudl you want a girl that is taken dont you think if she left him for you she would not do that to you
2006-12-08 06:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that you're glad that you got to know her better.
DON'T say that you enjoyed the date. just ditch her after the date and move on.
2006-12-08 06:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by kizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm... i dont think so... make her want you... it seems as if she lead you on for the longest... so just keep ya kool and let her see what she is missing... good luck!
2006-12-08 06:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by U dOnT kNo BoUt .:~LJ~:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2006-12-08 06:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by doggypaws32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋