Who else thinks sex should be more than a random encounter?

Question

I'm in college and hook ups are more common than going to class. I'm not a prude I like to party and get to know boys. People justify it by saying they are just a sexual person. Don't you think I can be sexual without being open like a 7-11? Platonic friends randomly have sex..I don't judge but I'm just not into it. Anyone else with me?

If I'm interested in a guy and learn he is or was into that stuff I become sooo turned off

Answer 1

I'm married so thank goodness I don't have to worry about that anymore. It is great that you don't have random sex but I have ran into a few guys that proved to be irrestible but be careful because if you end up dating one of them then they will say you are easy and will most likely never marry you.

Answer 2

Superchar I agree with you 1000%. A lot of people don't consider how having these one night stands etc. will effect them later in life. Nobody wants to marry a tramp and whether these girls believe themselves to be that or not, the fact is that a lot of the guys they are spending this time with do view them as such. We are all sexual beings but need to control it more carefully. I laugh when I see those Girls Gone Wild etc. commercials. Some of these girls are going to have their behaviour by appearing in these films come back to bite them in the **** later in life when they want to become doctors or lawyers or politicians, but they live for today and do not think of the long term consequences.

Answer 3

Do whatever you're comfortable with. A little "quickie" once in a while don't hurt.

Answer 4

agree... i've cared about everyone i've slept with... but i can't say i wouldn't have random sex... we are just humans... it's just a matter of how much, and who with...

Answer 5

I am so with you