i have a girl at my college and she is the most good looking girl in the whole of college. none of my friends know her friends and vice-versa.
how do i go and talk to her?!?!
i really like this girl and would get to know her.
2006-12-08 06:02:02 · 14 answers · asked by Jack 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in situations like this I remember what my mum use to say
" They can´t kill you and they can´t make you pregnant"
There is nothing shameful about wanting to slot your class mate.
Just pile over there and go for it. Believe me she´s probably gagging for it,
The worst that can happen is she blows you out, and then you get a complex for making a complete **** out of yourself in front of the entire college and develop deep pschological scars leading to an inferiority complex, and you will spend the rest of your days a virgin.
2006-12-08 07:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by JayEleven 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U seem like a very nice guy to me, so i'm sure she'll see the
good side of u. If she doesn't like u 4 hu u r, den he's not
what ur looking 4. If u want a long term relationship wiv her den
u should get 2 no her better. Start getting involved wiv her
work nd stuff, ask her if she nedds help. Try nd find out what u
both have in common. Slowly, when u get 2 no her better or when she does aswell, ask her out. Mak sure u do it properly though. Don't mess things up. Good luck mate.
2006-12-08 06:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by beckham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to remember is that she's the best looking in the whole college...to you. So not every guy in the place is going to be after her. Just try and be in the same places as she is...without stalking her...and start some casual conversation so she knows who you are. Once she knows who you are you can decide yourself how she reacts to you and whether you think it's a good idea to ask her out.
2006-12-08 06:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by flyingconfused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what! My guy friends always complain to me that girls seem to like jerks. That's not really true. Most jerks tend to come off confident. That's the appeal. If a guy is confident we are more likely to be interested because it gives the impression that other girls have been interested. I would be more apt to go out with a cute guy who came up to me and just asked than a gorgeous guy who asked my friend or hinted, ect. Just walk up and say, "Hey, I've seen you around a lot. My name is ____ would you like to get a cup of coffee?" The worst thing she can say is no and then you end up not dating which isn't really that different than your present situation. Good luck!
2006-12-08 06:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to get your self caught out a few times looking at her so she takes a notice of you. Dress smart everyday and try standing near her & when you feel she knows you are there. Wait for a time where she is alone or just with a few friends. Gently pull her up with a big smile and say hello ( BE YOURSELF ), ask her name, where she from, just try a general chat and say I think you are really beautiful and I would love to get to know you. Do I stand a chance ;o). Good luck
2006-12-08 06:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of very pretty girls dont get any attention from men because men are too scared to talk to them as they believe they are too good for them , this is not true just make a girl laugh and have good looks yourself and you'll be in there I promise!
2006-12-08 06:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bonbon23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...1st you have to have confidence in yourself...If she's the best looking girl then she's probaly tired of being seen as the best looking girl, maybe you should look for other good qualities in her like does she read? Does she know how to count...what she is interested in and then just strike a conversation...
2006-12-08 06:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pryceless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her first, don't judge her by looks, see what she's studying for and find out a bit about her. Other guys might find her amazingly attractive but they might not. If you only will ever see her as a girlfriend then ask her if she has a boyfriend. You know how it goes from there...
:-)
2006-12-08 06:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grow a pair and talk to her. That's pretty much all you can do. Ask her how she's finding the course, that's something you both have in common and would be a good ice-breaker.
2006-12-08 06:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange a gathering for all and make sure shes invited at your local, Have a few drinks let your inhibitions go and ask her out.
Good luck
2006-12-08 06:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by funk_sista1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋