Although my gf did everything she can to have me dump her so she can start a relationship with her new boyfriend..When I come back to her to see if she is still into me so we can come back, she said it's over, and that she doesn't want me anymore ... I felt rejected ..!! how to get over?
2006-12-08 06:00:47 · 4 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to get over a realtionship for me is to do a little cleaning up and keep busy. Its really hard especially when you didnt want it to end.
I would suggest to put those things away that remind you of the other person. If you spent a lot of time together and everything seems to, start with putting away the personalized items that represent the two of you. I never liked the idea of throwing things out. I just couldnt make myself do that. The idea of just "putting it away" for awhile was something I was willing to do.
I started with getting a big box and going through my room. Each item I found (pictures, gifts, movie ticket stubs, clothes, etc) I let myself recall the good memory and then I put it in the box. In a since saying good bye. I found it was easier to let myself let go of the relationship piece by piece instead of cold turkey.
The other thing that helped me a lot was to keep busy. Go out with friends stay away from the house and being alone. You aren't going to want to have a good time, but fake it and fake it well for everyone's sake. It turned out after awhile I got so good at faking it I was actually having a great time and I forgot I should be uphappy.
Remember: It takes time and only you know how much it WILL take. A lot of people say find someone else, get your rebound person. Im not sure this fair to that other person. If you choose to do that, be honest with the other person. Let them know you are still working through things and allow them to decide if they are okay with supporting you through it.
Hang in there.. there is life and HAPPINESS after a brake up.
*HUGS*
2006-12-08 06:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my that is bad.. she was the one who hurt you.. you sound like a nice guy.. hmm all i can think of is go back into your interests and find someone who will love you for you! Try not to think about her. If she tries to talk to you, ignore her.. you deserve better!
2006-12-08 14:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by chilipepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy. Just let her go. You are worthy of better. Be with friends and keep yourself busy.
2006-12-08 14:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on don't dwell on the past
it's bad for you
watch stupid disney movies if you have to
do anything to get your mind off of her
good luck!
2006-12-08 14:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by kizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋