i would want to marry a good guy but i always fall for the jerk ones.
2006-12-08 05:57:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is probably the thrill of being a rebel that you love. You yourself may be a good girl therefore are attracted to someone who has qualities that you do not. Sometimes the bad boys are exciting as you know it is wrong to date them but yet you want to because they are the forbidden guy so to speak. However, the good ones are the ones we fall in love with not in lust with and marry. :)
2006-12-08 06:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that a lot of ladies are turned on by the bad guy persona. A lot of the time it is due to the excitement and being able to show off to their friends that they are dating a "bad boy". Some females actually believe that they would be good for these guys and that they will change for them. But the sad fact is that nobody changes without wanting to do so. As woman age the often then start looking more closely at "good guys" or males that are a lot more responsible as they start dreaming about their future lives as parents etc.
2006-12-08 14:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should look at why this is the case - is it the excitment of the "bad boy's" reputation? Is it the danger? Ask your self these questions. Danger may be exciting but hardly the stuff of a long term relationship. And if you get a reputation yourself of being the sort of woman who runs with "bad boys" - will the good men take a second look at you? Consider the future, not the instant gratifiaction. Anything worth having is worth waiting for and working for.
2006-12-08 14:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Catharine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jerks can be charming...seem to be fun and exciting...of course good guys can too, but they tend to keep back some and not put themselves out there as much...
Start getting to know the guys you date a bit more BEFORE you go out...then maybe you'll save yourself spending time with too many more jerks...
2006-12-08 14:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we tend to like and fall for bad guys better than good ones, untill we are ready to settle down, then we start looking for good guys.
2006-12-08 13:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you can tame jerks better than others. Jerk can turn to good guys you know!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-08 14:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find bad guys are more interesting.make more friends you can date a bad guy but reserve the gd ones for marriage- they maybe boring but they are better choice
2006-12-08 14:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by istina jap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have better hair. I mean, really! Look at Tyson Ritter! He's a huge jerk!
2006-12-08 13:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah I know what you mean. I love the bad boys too. They are fun. But they are the cheaters and the boys that don't grow up/
2006-12-08 13:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cuz bad boys are exciting and fun. I try to be as bad as I can.
2006-12-08 14:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋