2006-12-08 05:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think in a way it does. Because I want them to know I'm happy with this guy. I want them to know he is a good guy. Your family has good instincts so if they tell you something wrong about him, you should really listen and consider what they are saying to you.
2006-12-08 05:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one cares about you as much as your family. Their opinion is very important, but they never have the last say. Don't forget that if you have a relationship with a guy that the family hates, it will hurt your relationship with your family in the long run and make your relationship with him very difficult.
2006-12-08 05:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't but it does. but then again, i wont know as ive only brought one bf to meet my family and my mom liked him. but i decided that i dont after 3 years of long distance, ideologically challenged relationship. felt like i sticked with the guy that long coz my mom's opinion (a good one) of him is forcing me to stay with him. when i finally broke up with him i felt so relieved albeit a lil bit lost. ive vowed to not introduce my bfs to my family until im ready for a totally serious rship--- translate as contemplating marriage. That has been like 4 yrs ago!
2006-12-08 06:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does for me. I don't think it should but it does in a way. My mother has great insight and sometimes she sees something in the guy I am dating that I don't see until later. In the end it is important that you like this guy. They just have to tolerate him.
2006-12-08 05:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely does. Especially if you come from a conservative family! Believe it or not, it's difficult to detach from those feelings!
2006-12-08 06:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by MissLatteandMocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but then I'm a grown woman and I live my life for me, not anyone else...my family wouldn't be dating him.
2006-12-08 05:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my aunt who i live with hates my current bf but i love him to death. its about what u feel for someone , not what your family feels b/c they are not dating the person, u are!
2006-12-08 05:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. This is very important.
2006-12-08 05:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BRING HIM AROUND THE FAMILY.BUT IF YOU ARE IT DOES MATTER
2006-12-08 05:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER !!!
take my advice and follow your heart....
2006-12-08 05:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by do it again man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋