me and my boyfriend hae been goin out 4 about 3 months.I think that it's goin good but he acks like he don't like me anymore.But he is the type that loves 2 play games.Is it over or wat.Help plz!!!!
2006-12-08 05:48:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mz.Jazzmin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as if it is over. Why don't you just call him and end things. If he races over to your house and swoops you up in his arms and tells you not to do that to him and that he loves you and so on, then you know you've got a grip on those marbles of his. If not, well, buh-bye.
2006-12-08 06:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been going out for about 3 months and your already having these kinds of problems, I would suggest you sit him down and get him straight or break up, Your relationship is not strong at all (not even enough) to be thinking about these things. You need to talk to him (a relationship needs trust and comunication) And see whats going on, b/c its too soon for the likes or no likes anymore thing. Get him straight or get out. Do yourself a favor, Hun its too early in your relationship for headaches.
2006-12-08 13:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
You still want to be with him only if he changes. YOu are still hoping that he will see the light and change his ways. Chances are he won't. So you have to leave and take the pain that comes with it, and have to deal with it. Stay away until there is no pain left. Eventually you will get over it. even if it does take time it is better than having the pain of being with him and having to deal with this later on in life. Staying with him will only prolong the inevitable. And u don't want a guy who loves playin games with u don't u.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 13:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should refuse to play games! Why do you think things are going good if he acts like he does not like you anymore? When we allow people to play games with us we sell ourselves short. Don't you deserve someone better, someone who will treat you like he likes you, someone who acts like they want to be with you? My hubby is awesome and I am so glad I decided to get out of the games. My man is HOT, but the most important thing I saw in him was a man of character, someone who respected me and treated me with gentleness and kindness. Now we are playing "games" together (married over 9 years now) that are way hotter then any of those guys who use to try and "play" me.
2006-12-08 14:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be in a relationship with some one who likes to play games with your emotions? That's a form of abuse. I think your gut instinct is telling you the relationship is at an end.
2006-12-08 13:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you really should spell check your question. It was hard to read. Anyway, it is over when the person just isnt interested in what you do anymore. He becomes detached and distant and is just not into you anymore. Move on and find someone else.
2006-12-08 13:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys have been talking less or spending less time together then there is probably something goin on and he may end it, u just need to talk to him and see what he says, ask him what he feels cuz i could go on all day but i cant read his mind.
2006-12-08 13:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he makes up excuses not to be around and/or call you. When you are the one who keeps trying to stay in contact.
2006-12-08 13:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by scorpio84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always based it on... If Im in a relationship and I feel lonely, then its over.
2006-12-08 13:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and except the facts even if you dont like them. anyone who plays games i dont trust or would want no part of myself.
2006-12-08 13:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋