thers this guy ive been talking to and at first he seemed great. i mean i really liked him. but now everything is startin to unreavel about him. he's somewhat manipulative, never positive..and heres the messed up part, he dont want to persue a relationship with me cus he dosent what to hurt his ex( how broke up with him first)..so im really hurtin on that, what should i do?
2006-12-08 05:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by loveairy06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like this guy is a little 'off' move on, find someone a little more mentally stable!
2006-12-08 05:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still stuck on his ex's feelings rather than worried about starting this relationship off, you may want to let him go. It sounds like he's waiting on his ex to soften up so that they can get back together and he's not really interested in the relationship that you are trying to build with him.
2006-12-08 13:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pryceless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games girl.... Stop talking to him. Dont initiate any conversations and make all conversations he starts end abruptly. Dont fall into his games. Right now hes giving you a preview of what a relationship would be like with him, Calous and secretive with a touch of possessiveness. Dont fall for it.
2006-12-08 13:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on loveybear, this person will only ruin you, there are some decent guys out there, some are hard to find, but they are out there, be safe and Good Luck.
2006-12-08 13:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was never meant to be yours. Its a lame excuse that he does not want to ofend his ex. Get someone else.
2006-12-08 13:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't get over his ex then say goodbye!!!! If he is as bad as you say he is good ridiance!!!!!! Who needs that kind of man or woman in their lives?????? Wake up!!!!!!! How blind and desperate can you be????? He is not the man for you!!!!! Let his ex have him!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 13:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by squeegie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt get upset over this loser, he doesnt want to hurt his ex, what kind of bull is that. shes an ex, meaning the past. my advice to you would be to not waste your time anymore.
2006-12-08 13:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if it is going to work-out that he needs to let go and forget. if he loves you, YOU should be the one he is always there for, not worrying bout her. his ex probably don't care for him anymore. don't worry, you'll be alright.
don't doubt,
Gonzalez
2006-12-08 13:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Napoosha! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need him hun... move on... ok... you can do nothing but find someone better and who will care more about you... rather than his ex... good luck!
2006-12-08 13:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by U dOnT kNo BoUt .:~LJ~:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else
2006-12-08 13:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋