I asked my friend three days ago if she would like to eat lunch together or just chill with each other. she said sure and "I'll try to fit us into the schedule". I saw her yesterday, I started to talk to her, make her laugh and just entertain her. I said "I think we should chill together sometime during x-mas break." she said " I had sides of me that you don't see while i'm at school" and I think she kept dodging my invite to chill with her. I think she sensed I was trying to ask her out. I'm had feelings for her for a month and I know she knows I like her. Right now, I'm thinking about throwing in the towel but a small part of me tells me to press on and go after her. I feel like i'm split between the side that is cool wanting to be her friend and the side that wants to be more. I won't be able to see her until next semester when school starts up again. I got her and my other friends x-mas gift and I got her a awesome hat. I got her the hat not for romantic reasons, just as friends.
2006-12-08 05:25:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unlike the common misconception.... friend can become more and be okay. Everyone is scared that if it doesn't work outt hen you lost everything. Well, sure, if it doesn't work out... it may be awkward for a while, but if you two were really friends, then you guys can pull through. Every relationship needs a foundation if they really want to last... and that foundation is a friendship. Rather than making things worse... it makes the relationship better. And, I think that if you really like her, then you should press on. Sometimes it doesn't work right away... sometimes you have to pursue the girl for a while before it works. Besides, girls love to be pursued... it shows that you are serious. Either give it some time and see what happens or sit down with her and talk one day and flat out tell her how you feel and see how she feels.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 05:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by shortnspunky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then stop being coy and tell the woman what's on your mind. If you don't ask her the question she can't give you the answer. So come out and tell her you want to be more than friends she can only say yes or no. If she say no she may let you become a friend with benefits, that's not a boyfriend but it is the next best thing. It means sex is involved but you can't complain if she dates somebody else.
2006-12-08 05:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would call her and tell her that you got her something for xmas and ask her if she would like to go see a movie or go to the mall or something. If she blows you off again than she is probably not interested in being more than friends with you at this time.
2006-12-08 05:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very common for friends becoming a couple. No big deal.
2006-12-08 05:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently engaged to my best friend of 9 years...it happens and I think it is a definite plus to have been friends first. :)
2006-12-08 05:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kari W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it works out, that is the best kind. However, if it doesn't work out, then likely you'd lose a good friend.
2006-12-08 05:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with that. it happens everyday.
2006-12-08 05:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋