I'm grieving alot over my miscarriage and i wanted to do something positive so I'm debating about getting a tatoo of a small angelic symbol or a butterfly on the inside of my wrist.Which one do you think?
2006-12-08 05:19:00 · 16 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
Get the angelic symbol.
sorry for your lost...
2006-12-08 05:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by KaShae 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, having lost a baby due to miscarriage myself with my wife, it is best to just keep it in your heart rather than have some reminder of it all. When we lost our first, our OBGYN kept everything on the downlow and everything under a light tone. We did not even know the gender of our baby but we knew it was a trisome 15 that caused the miscarriage. I fainted for about 15 mins when I found out. I still think back that we lost a baby but now that we have our son, I still think back but it hurts a lot less. IMHO, just an opinion without judgements but with experience I think it is best to just let it be and not get a tattoo. I know that it is none of my business but in our experience, it is better to not have things to remind you of the sad and harsh times of losing a baby. We still have the sonograms but I have not looked at them in a long long time. You must go one living, and if you feel that a memorial tattoo will help you go on living then get it. But if it will keep reminding you of the sad times, I would say not to get the tattoo. Again, this is just my opinion from experience, not a judgement call. God speed.
2006-12-08 13:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by John C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Angelic symbol. I think this symbolizes more more about your baby. I guess that everytime you look at it, you'll know that your child is being watched over by angels. And if you don't believe in that... it's still nice to get an angel.
2006-12-08 13:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Drixtina05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a memorial to your baby is a nice idea. Maybe in a more personal, out of the way area like your hip or lower abdomen, so you don't see it over and over again and don't have to answer alot of questions. I miscarried over 18 months ago and its still painful, but not an all the time thing, just when I let my mind wander. Good luck.
2006-12-08 13:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you give the baby a name? Sometimes it helps the healing to have the baby a name. You could do a small angelic tattoo and have the name by it, maybe butterflies around it
2006-12-08 13:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all sorry for your loss. it wasn't your fault. GOD does things for a reason. You should be happy and go on with your life. and ithink that you should get a small angelic symbol. it would look very cute!!1
2006-12-08 13:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get the angelic symbol, it would mean something more spiritual and more relaxing or kind.
I am sorry to hear about your loss, i had an experience not even 4 months ago, i know what ur goin' through.
hope you get through it ok
2006-12-08 16:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kirbs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be awsome to do. Im 17 and my friend Keri is also 17 she will be 18 in a month she had a miscarage so she kbows how she feels. I think its sad and u have every right to get a tato for ur baby girl that would be appricated and I AM SOOOOO SORRY ABOUT UR LOSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 13:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by babyboo200320042003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an angel.
2006-12-09 16:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a small angelic symbol would be nice
2006-12-08 14:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Shealyn b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋