Need more info on this topic.I'm 18 and a learner so plz be serious in answering this one.
2006-12-08 05:11:50 · 4 answers · asked by technomix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well advantages are obviously orgasms and maybe a feeling of physical closeness with someone. Disadvantages are making a relationship more serious than it should be, diseases (1 in 3 people has herpes which is incurable) unwanted pregnancies, then of course, once you start what else is there left after that as well? If there's not too much of a hurry for you, waiting is not the end of the world. 18 year olds can tend to come too early too!
2006-12-08 05:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, here's how i see this in a nutshell:
guys physically are just gonna Want sex. initially, w/ anything w/ 2 legs. =T hahah! i think they are built to be PHysically and Visually stimulated..which explains the 9/10 times a minute thinking of sex.
girls are much more emotionally wired... sure they may want sex. but they can Go Without it.... it's a different "want" than the way men want it. girls are more mentally and emotionally Stimulated.. even if they act like they want sex, most likely it's because somehow they think it will keep the man With them.
however, if both men and women have SUCH DIFFERENCES in the way they view sex, it causes huge disconnect. i mean, a 16 year old boy who is curious, is pretty much Teased to death to "go all the way with a girl". so that means it can be any girl.. and also it means most likely than not he probably won't marry this girl, he's only 16. so 98% he is probably going to hurt this girl pretty badly emotionally. the guy's just gonna keep trying to get experience, but only stick w/ a woman when she "forces" him to develop some kind of Emotional and Mental connection that he treasures, not just the PHysical.
so long story short, i think guys should try to get experience, sure. a man should always lead, but keep in mind what is honorable for the woman. and women should learn to "close their legs" and encourage the man to develop an emotional and mental connection before they have sex. i think eventually guys learn that girls who give it up too easily are not the ones they want to Marry. so that means, girls need to figure out what their Values are: do they want to be the 'easy' girl that lotsa guys go after for experience, or do they want to be the girl who has values and knows what kind of man she wants, and has standards so she doesn't do it w/ just anyone?
it's the "dance" between men and women trying to take the relationship further or holding back that allows the couple to Learn about each other, eventually finding out if they want to get married. good luck!
2006-12-08 13:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only advantage is physical pleasure, and you can acheive that on your own.
The disadvantages are STD's, unplanned pregnancy, feeling/acting like you're more committed than you really are which can turn girls psycho.
Of course once you've been with someone a long time and love them, sex is a great way to express your love for that person. But I don't feel like anyone age 18 is ready for that. Don't confuse love with lust!
2006-12-08 13:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't know well yeah a disadvantage condoms are only 85% safe !! so be prepared to be a daddy!! and well also getting a infection condoms really don't protect from infections. and there is nothing wrong with the word SEX it is natural so you can spell it out!!
you should learn about abstinence before sex dough!!!
be carfull !!!
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2006-12-08 13:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋