I know its sounds very strange....but this girl.... ive never felt like this before with anyone else, and i feel wrong to have sex with her.....im scared of losing her if i dont put out soon.....ive never felt this way about anyone, i kiss her all the time etc...but feel wrong to have sex with her?what is this feeling ppl?generally i can have sex with girs and i dont feel bad about it at all. Weve being going out for about 4 months now.......will she move on if i dont go there?....shes special to me
2006-12-08 04:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's because you love her and do not want to disrespect her. Tell her how you feel and you want to wait until the time is right.
2006-12-08 04:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Deana S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem but in a different position. I am the girlfriend and my boyfriend is like you. He says he wants it to be special; we have now been together 5 months. I love him and I will wait however long he needs. So if you want to wait then she should support your decision. But don’t take forever
2006-12-08 12:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means you two need to sit down and have a talk about what you both want in life b/c at anytime when you have sex.. u are commiting yourself to the responsibilities and to things teens aren't ready for. Have a talk with her and she how she feels if you don't have sex with her.
2006-12-08 12:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lil' Miss Thing aka Crista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you actually really like her, and because you really like her, her opinion counts on whether your performance is any good?? Am I right?? Then be true to yourself, and make it a special occasion for her when you do. Lots of music, dim lights, no distractions, phones etc, and make her feel like a million dollars, ask her what she likes, how she likes it? If you really feel like you do, then with this girl make a difference and be the man of her dreams! Good luck
2006-12-08 12:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Girl of Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- how old are you? Cuz I'm not going to advocate any irresponsible teenage sex.
Assuming you are over 18 it may mean you actually love this chick. Real relationships aren't just about getting laid, but respecting and caring about the other person.
2006-12-08 12:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by montana_is_the_gr8_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might move on. She may they you are gay if you don't at least try to make a move. Maybe you really like her and respect her too much to just have meaningless sex with her and want to wait.
2006-12-08 12:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~She'll move on if you don't have sex with her, 4 months is a long time. Are you insecure about something? You're a guy and you're afraid to "put out?" Good grief!~
2006-12-08 12:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Explain all that you just said to her. If she feels the same way about you, she'll be honored. If she's just in it for the sex, then may as well let her go.
2006-12-08 12:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl REALLY loves you then she will respect your wishes to not have sex with her!! please don't have sex with her just because your afraid of losing her, because if thats all she wants then the relationship won't last long anyways
2006-12-08 12:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Groover_84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe, just possibly, almost, have a teeny touch of respect for her....but, if she is ready, willing and able, then NAIL IT!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 12:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋