Guys, wouldnt our lives be much much easier if the girls would ask us out on dates? I hate asking girls and playing "the dating game". Why cant they just ask us out?
Girls, have you ever asked a guy out, would you like it if it were the other way around and you could to ask the guys out?
2006-12-08 04:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm. If you remember the movie "A Beautiful Mind" it was about the life of a guy named John Nash. Nash started "game theory." If you learn about game theory, you will find out that the people who do the asking are more likely to find a partner that they are happy with. This is because, as the one doing the pursuit, you can go and ask out the woman you like the most. The woman is stuck around waiting. She might get approached by a lot of loser guys or not at all! if she's a loser. How would you like to be that girl? How would you like it if you got hit on by a lot of fat and ugly women?
Anyway, I'm a girl, and I dropped about 30 really obvious hints before my guy started paying any attention. I would have asked him out, but due to some complicated circumstances, I had to wait a long time. Anyway, you might think you would like for the girl to do the asking.... but how will you like it when she chooses the movie and restaurant? They might not be so much to your liking!
2006-12-08 04:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hear u man my life would be ten times easier if a girl would ask me out instead of the other way around
2006-12-08 04:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jay-C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,I asked and didn't worked well but I didn't regret.And I don't think there is a rule.If someone is so in love and has courage then they will be the first to ask someone out!
2006-12-08 04:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm old fashion and have never asked a guy out. I just feel its a guys place to ask me out. But I do make it easy for a guy by showing I'm interasted with flirting.
2006-12-08 04:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was this guy I worked with. He had to pass my desk in the lab where we worked in order to get coffee, and he drank about a zillion cups of coffee every day.
I thought he was kind of interesting, and he would stop and talk to me when he went to get coffee. Well he kept stopping and talking and stopping and talking until my supervisor took notice and very diplomatically told me I had to do something about it.
So I told the guy that if he would leave me alone for ONE WEEK, not stop and talk to me when he made the trip for coffee, I would take him out to lunch. He said that if I made it dinner, I had a deal.
He left me alone for a week, and I took him out for dinner. He asked me afterwards if I wanted to see a movie, and I said okay.
That was 30 years ago, and we've now been married for just short of 29 years.
During our courtship I asked him out sometimes, and he asked me out sometimes. I paid for some of our dates, he paid for some, and we went dutch (i.e., each paid our own way) for some.
I agree that if a girl wants to ask a guy out, she should (and pay for the date herself if she asks him out). It worked for my husband and me!
2006-12-08 04:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asked out several times, maybe girls just don't find you very interesting.
2006-12-08 04:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that alot of us woman are taught that the man should be the aggressor and since alot of men are intimidated by us in the first place if we went up and asked them out they would be wtf?
2006-12-08 04:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did once and will never do it again because he didnot want to go out with me
2006-12-08 04:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pringuita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋