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i think i might really need it. i miss my family i haven't seen in over six years. the only family i have are my "friends" but they have been so negative and mean to me lately. i feel hurt and depressed and I hate the holidays because they make me feel alone. What can I do to get rid of the negativity around me because I feel like the only thing I can do is run and hide. I am soooo hurt. I feel like i can't trust anyone

2006-12-08 04:33:26 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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Secret, Know that everyone feels that same way at one time or another. And the reason we feel like this is because their is a void in our lives. Two years ago my husband lost his 20 year carreer because of an affair he had. We had just bought our home and and we had so many bills. I was so depressed I did not want to be around anyone including my young children. Thats why God hates sin so much because it hurt people deeply. My husband was depressed and ashamed for what he had done to our family. I felt I had no one to turn too, I felt so alone I wanted to die. Thats the way God wanted it because when I am weak I am strong because I put my hope in Jesus. I prayed for him to heal my broken heart and to help our family not to be homeless. Those were the most darkest days of my life. But I look back and I am thankful and grateful because God showed me he was real and it made my faith stronger in my belief in Jesus and realized how much he loves and cares for his children. He will do the same for you. Trust with all your heart and soul and cry out to him because Jesus is the only one who can help you. He knows how you feel remember they hung Him and humiliated him. I will pray for you secret. And may I suggest you go and see the movie the Nativity You will learn the true meaning of Christ-mas not all the hype the media shows you. God bless you sweety I will be praying for you.

2006-12-08 05:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by ken9sam 1 · 1 0

I know how you feel ,i feel your feelings far away and through the words from the spirit in you, i cry because i love you and let those feeling come inside of me also ,tear s are for healing it feels so good loving you in this brief moment in time .i really do and funny the thing is, i was never loved also ,look at how many answers i received ,to how answers i have given to help[ many.i am here in the name of love to love all , the only one in the world who does ,you will find your place when you find yourself within this sets you free is through the truth within you and you cant do any thing about whats going on in this sick in world ,just walk way and be not a part of that world and find those that bring love into your world ,for those who fail in this are evil ,wicked and lost souls that have lost their way some where along the way,sad to say ,Try this fill God with your love and God fills your spirit with happiness two found

2006-12-08 04:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sometimes life gets a bit crappy, but hold on in there it will get
better, your friends may not realise how upset you are and for what reason, so try talking to one of them u can trust.
Also give your family a call, i bet they will be happy to hear from u.
so chin up girl, u will eventually come out the other end smiling.
Thinking of u and saying a little prayer.

2006-12-08 04:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by ANMAR 3 · 1 0

Sometimes the friends are just like you said. You only have to think that you aren't alone, you have God besides i will pray for you, i have felt the same many times. Don't worry i know what you are suffering. Just have to trust better than before ; )

2006-12-08 04:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Delosly 3 · 1 0

its sad you dont see your family at this time of year? As for your friends they might just be a bit stressed with xmas coming. So dont worry im sure they dont mean to be mean to you , if they are really your friends. Dont run and hide yourself. Go out and enjoy ourself.. tis the season to be jolly and all that! You could meet new people and end up having more fun! keep ya chin up!x

2006-12-08 04:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I've found that there's nothing better to lift my spirits, especially around the holidays, than to help out at the local soup kitchen, homeless shelter, or community outreach. Not only does it remind me how fortunate I've been, but helping people makes me feel more positive about the world.

2006-12-08 04:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Kid. Go to church look for guidence through god. I told myself if I ever felt this way I'll move to a small distant city. That I don't really know anyone and live with strangers in a small bedroom. Because everyone has problems and I would help them with thiers. Then when I'm ready try to go back.

2006-12-08 04:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

There is a verse that helps me through the tough times. It is a promise from God that if you give Him your problems, He will give you peace - note that it does not say He will fix everything, but will grant your heart rest.

Phil 4:6-7
Be anxious for nothing, but through prayer and supplication, let your request be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

You are in my prayers.

2006-12-08 04:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by padwinlearner 5 · 2 0

One prayer comming right up! However, it could be difficult (if not downright impossible) for me to direct God's Holy Spirit to you since I don't know who you are or where you live. It's a bit of a tall order, although I'm sure God can get round it. He already knows you and what you need. Just ask him for help. God bless.

2006-12-08 04:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

May God fill you life with his freinds (in Jesus name).
Find a church where Christ is the center of the church.
Find a small group whithin the church and they will become closer than any family you could ever imagine.
Pray (speak to God every day)
Read the Bible every day
Do this and your life will be a new one.

God Loves You

2006-12-08 04:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Noka 3 · 2 0

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