i dont know wat to do i feel stuck and i have no real feelings for him anymore . we have only been together for five months n it is too early for him to tell me he loves me. i didnt even say it back i just "no u dont , u just think u do" n i just kissed him goodbye. wat do i do
2006-12-08 04:29:36 · 13 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him. Otherwise you'd be dating him out of pity.
2006-12-08 04:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alexz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha, that is terrible. You are about to break up with him and he pops the L word out on you. I would just tell him you don't feel that way about him. There's not much you can do about it really. I mean just because he said he loves you doesn't mean you should be stuck in a relationship you don't want to be in. However, if he feels that strongly about you, be prepared for him to start crying or something when you break up with him. I'm sorry, but I do find your situation funny.
2006-12-08 04:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him I don't have these strong feelings for you. Love takes time to grow and some people it takes longer then others to feel it. If you don't feel anything anymore for him then he needs to know this so you both can get on with your lives.I know it is hard to do but the longer you lead him on the more confused and he may even be a bit mad that you didn't tell him sooner. Don't play with peoples emotions....tell him now.
2006-12-08 04:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him back there is no reason to string him a long. tell him how you feel and that you want to break up. if you are meant to be together then you will later after you have time to sort out your feelings. if your not meant to be together then you and he will move on and be Happy with whom you are supposed to be with. Sometimes hurt feelings is good, it makes us stronger. And it always works out in the end.
2006-12-08 04:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have only told u that to make u feel this way maybe he knew that u were about to break up with him. U should just tell him u dont feel that way about him its better to tell him now before he starts getting to attached and then it will be harder to break it off.
2006-12-08 04:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 03:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are by no means obligated to stay with him. I mean, yeah it will hurt him... and no one likes to break a heart. But would you rather leave him and suffer oh say a week or so of "Oh man, I hope he's okay" or waste months--even years--with someone you don't even love?
2006-12-08 04:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by serena_dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him you want to finish its not fair if you dont of course he can love you i was with my boyfriend only 2 months when i knew i loved him do the decent thing and let him down gently if not it will only get harder for both of you good luck
2006-12-08 04:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note. Your spelling will make him realize what a mistake he made.
Seriously, though? STOP kissing him. It will lead him on. Oh, and end it ASAP, regardless of WHAT he says.
2006-12-08 04:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by TheOneVersion3.0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
END IT!
if you were going to end it before he said it, him telling you that should not make a differance.
be true to yourself and him and end it before it gets ugly.
he might actually love you but if you care about him in anyway you must tell him you do not share the sentiment and send him on his way.
2006-12-08 04:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by yeaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋