what if you met the girl of your dreams...she's beautiful, smart, intelligent and down to earth. She has a good job and is fairly independent. she just seems to complete you but she has 3 kids (beautiful kids I might add) but you do not have kids. Would you still pursue this relationship? Or would you back off and search for someone with less of a family commitment. Please give a reason for your answer. In this case, I'm the person with the three kids.. he knows my kids very well cause we know each other for over 3 years.
2006-12-08 04:21:51 · 6 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The children are an asset and would make me love her more.
2006-12-08 04:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Darth Vader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now a days kids come with almost all relatonships with older people... If he loves all this about you then he should have no problem with your kids... He has know your kids for 3 years and still wants you then go for it and have a good time... just because someone has kids doesn't mean that it is going to be a bad relatinship or anything.... it is better to have tried and failed then never have tried at all
2006-12-08 12:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on what the other is looking for. Do they want more children of their own? Are you wanting to have more? Is this person willing to have a ready made family and all the responsibilities that come with it. If you really have feelings that run true and deep for someone you shouldn't care if they have children after all the kids are part of what made them who they are.
2006-12-08 12:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i said b4 u have to decide if u can deal with this.we cant do it for u..so what she has 3 kids if she has all of what u want why is she damaged goods so to speak or what is it that u arent sure about.
2006-12-08 12:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary I already responded to this....Good Luck!
2006-12-08 12:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone loves you they will accept your kids as well
2006-12-08 12:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋