A friend of mine got pregnant with a guy that already had 4 kids by 4 different women and she was upset when he left her. This seems to be an ongoing thing. Can these women not seee the man leaving? The same with a man that won't keep a job wjen he and a woman are dating. Why would he keep one after getting her pregnant? I just don't get it. Anyone else have an opinion or situations like this?
2006-12-08 04:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think these women think they can *change* the man. We all feel at some point in our lives we can make the bad boy a good caring person. I think it's a naive notion and really immature. Although I'm young I realized early on you can never change anyone. It's sad to see these women even defend their ex's or get back with them but hey, it's their live. I believe they'll learn eventually but unfortunately they'll learn the hard way.
2006-12-08 04:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by .vato. 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Your friend seems to have asked for it in this situation, but most women don't seem to find out that the men are losers until after the fact. Men can be very convincing liars. Women need to look at how they live their lives before commiting to having a child with these jerks.
2006-12-08 04:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Amy L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because for women unfortunatly it only takes a little attention to make us feel loved and important, and these "loosers" know how and what to say. Men get into a relationship hoping the Women won't change, a women gets into a relationship hoping and believing she can change the man. By the time you realize he was in fact a looser it's too late.
2006-12-08 04:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they don't find out the guys a loser until after there already pregnant, or after the child is born.
2006-12-08 04:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by tysexy25 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with them not being losers before getting pregnant. Remember love is blind, and it will make you do crazy things.
Before your friend got pregnant he probably showed her an amazing time and made the ex's out to be psycho in his eyes.
He makes himself to be the best to hide the worst. It is a vicious cycle.
2006-12-08 09:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sometimes people have been around those types and are unconsciously drawn to them. Other times, that is just the type of person that they prefer because of some adolescent fantasy to change that person for the better!!!!
2006-12-08 05:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by mya 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At first a woman cant really see what a man can be like they f*** you tell you that they love you then they leave you. I cant stand guys they are the biggest assholes ever
2006-12-08 04:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by SK8TER$CHICK_ALL THE WAY#1 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
3 kids
3 diff women
now her?
dumbass your friend is
yes
she shoulda hung out with john does other
brother dill
2006-12-08 04:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by superguyrye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i got pregant bt a loser i just dont kno but when u find out let me kno
2006-12-08 04:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because these same woman are losers.
2006-12-08 04:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋