I've been dating a guy for eight months...he is very sweet and caring but once and a while we'll go out and he'll slip into this funk...he becomes apathetic to me, quiet, withdrawn and somber...he recently started a new job and does have some financial concerns...but I'm getting tired of the Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde bit...is he still interested in me? is he just stressed?
2006-12-08 04:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by November 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how u feel I went threw the same thing. Finally I sat him down and asked him in the nicest way possible, if there was something bothering him. I told him the vibes I was getting from him was weird and let him know I can be just as much as a good friend to him as I can a gf. I told him he could come to me if he ever needed to talk to someone even it was something bad about us cause I can be understanding. Good Luck if he really loves u he will open up.
2006-12-08 04:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by =^..^=Mama Kitty=^..^= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just about anything, but some people are just wired that way...one minute very sweet and love and the next minute, watch out. It could be stress, a mental disorder, or just a phase. The question is how often does this happen. If it happens every few days, there's definitely a problem.
2006-12-12 01:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when that happens there is an un-comfort zone that he kind of keeps falling in, may be its guilt ,if y'all are in a relationship where he feels that you can do better or may be he did something , it could be anything. Men sometimes take a lot of blame, or it could be that there is a distance between you guys because of the changes that are taking place in the relationship as far as his new job, men are funny and they have their monthly cycles like we do its just our cycle come from nature and theirs come from emotions that they fell they can never share.
2006-12-08 12:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having some mental health issues? When I found out about my depression I was the sameway! And added stress doesn't help esp. financial..Maybe suggest a doctor to him just to be sure..Tell him what you see, and how it makes you feel..And that maybe it could be depression related?
2006-12-08 12:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since he is trying to start this new job just give him a little time to get used to the new routine. and if he still does the Dr. J./Mr.Hyde u should kick his *** to the curb
2006-12-08 12:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cristinna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's going through metapouse early? how old is he? he might have some health issues too or something like that. sit down and have a talk with him.
2006-12-08 12:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be worried about something that he think is going to happen. try showing a little emotions.
2006-12-08 12:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by JBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just stressed out just try little things to try to make him happy
2006-12-08 12:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is interestid of you
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2006-12-08 12:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋