I dont like boys and i dont like girls?

Question

...and no i dont like animals!...

I don't know what I am

When I hang around my galfriends, theyre always looking at magazines...saying.."O my God he's soo Hot" just about every boy on the page

Im nott like that. and no for sure Im not a lesbo

I see people (boys&girls), like they're simply a PICTURE of Art....and if their good-looking people I just admire their face like its beautiful art, NOTHING MORE though (unlike other people)

I'm not attracted to people sexually? is that what this means?
and by the way i think sex is gross
and i am not a very affectionate person
i don't like hugging people or kissing people,
because i think theyre dirty

does this make me an ASEXUAL? or Am I just really picky?

by the way I'm not kidding, this is a seriouss post, so dont give dumb answers. thanks

AND NO, i Was never molested...

Answer 1

look trust urself and dont care what people say about u
because never say the truth all the time
so dont care they try to tease u

Answer 2

Maybe go the the dr. and just have them do a hormonal test...this may be able to lead you in the direction of where you don't feel attraction a certain way.
In some cases, if someone thinks sex/kissing is dirty it comes from 1) sexual abuse (which you say doesn't apply-alot of times it may buried too deep to remember) or 2) a "moral" that was taught or emphasized at some point during childhood or 3) you may just be too young to be interestesed, some people don't start feeling attracted or want to kiss until during/after puberty.

Just some suggestions and are strictly based on my opinion and experiences. If you are truly happy (which is a question only you know deep inside)...then don't worry about what the rest of the world says. And if you are spiritual, you can also pray about it too to find peace.

Answer 3

well, it would depend on how old you are. I assume you're a girl since you're not a "lesbo". I think if you're still young, then you will have plenty of time to aquire tastes for either sex. It's okay that you don't really like anyone right now. It happens at different times for different people. And maybe you are just more concerned about other things like school at this time in your life, and so you haven't payed much attention to the opposite sex.
Its all okay. And it's okay if you don't want to have sex, or if you are asexual. who cares? it's your life. live it however you wanna.
but i think eventually someone special will catch your eye.

Answer 4

I have that same problem any time I play an online game. I play world of warcraft alot, and most guys that play are convinced that I'm lying about my gender. When they hear my voice they get all pissed off and tell me that I'm only playing cause I'm ugly and have no friends (not true). Also, there are alot of comments that guys will make that are really upsetting about their wives, girlfriends and children. It's not very encouraging to think that some guys are like that...

Answer 5

Asexuality refers to either an absence of specific sex cell production capability or the self applied label for those who are not attracted to others for purposes of sexual behavior.

Your term is accurate in meaning -- and your choice in the regard of sexuality is not a problem as long as you are happy with it. You are not the only one who is not attracted by sexuality and you should not be concerned unless it makes you uncomfortable with yourself.

Aversions to hugging and kissing people you think are 'dirty' is not a problem either as long it is a choice you're satisfied with. However neurotic it appears there are those of us who avoid overt signs of affection and intimacy. The problems arise when these behaviors (or desires of avoidance thereto) become issues in our own minds.

If you don't have a problem with your feelings in this regard what others think should be a secondary issue. If you decide that your feelings regarding intimacy, affection, and/or sexuality in general are problematic to you then you should explore these feelings with an appropriate counselor.

Answer 6

That is quite a strange dilemma. First of all, let me just tell you that as long as you're comfortable with who you are, then you're good. It doesn't matter what others think. If you do end up finding someone who you do like, well, its going to be one hard relationship if you don't like to be touched, or kissed. I guess that for the time being, you just haven't figured yourself out. Don't fret, its normal. It could be that you're just really picky. Don't worry, something will come of it eventually.

Answer 7

Sounds like your still young...in your teens etc. Basically you stated that you're not attracted to people sexually..I think that's why you don't like boys/girls yet. Sexually, you're still maturing. You see sex being gross and that's normal for an individual who has yet to mature and is becoming a young adult. Give yourself time, no need to rush, there's plenty of time to be an adult. Enjoy your youth, your friends, and eventually, a special someone will catch your eye and that desire to give him a hug will come naturally. Don't see yourself different or odd, see yourself as a normal young person whose learning about yourself as you turn into a young adult. Smile.......you're beautiful!! :)

Answer 8

U will eventually grow out of this phase, first u got to love yourself and when u do find someone really sexually attractive, the chemistry will out weigh your thinkin.
U are human and u are just picky. Find yourself and the other comes naturally

Answer 9

There's more to relationships than sex!!

Maybe you're a more deep and meaningful person just waiting to find the right person who makes you comfortable enough to think that way. I used to get grossed out by the idea of sex until i found the right guy.....ur perspective changes. Just enjoy life and enjoy everything that comes your way...there is probably someone out there that thinks the same way as you and that you'll get to know more closely ... who knows wat might happen in the future.

Answer 10

Um A good part to add in your question is how old are you? If your young it could just be something you will grow into. Maybe you should talk to a doc about it. It may be a mental thing that you can over come (if you want to over come it)

Answer 11

There is about 1% of the population that is non-sexual - meaning they have little or no interest in having sex. It is hormonal and may change as you get older.