theres a girl in my school, called jane* who seems to like me, but i love her best friend mischa*, but mischa* has a boyfriend. he treats her badly, but she doesnt seem to notice or care, and it it makes me really jealous. my best friend john* is smitten with jane* and he will probably kill me if i end up with her.i dont want to turn jane* away, because i dont want to hurt her, but john* will probably hate me if i end up with her. i really dont know what to do. some help please?
2006-12-08 03:57:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woah. your life's a soap opera! anw, if you dont like jane, then just dont be with her! talk to her about it maybe and encourage john to get closer to her. i dont suggest you moving in too quickly to mischa. if you really like her, stay by her side and give her a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear. when she and her bf are done, she'll realise all along, you have been with her. then you can confess your feelings. at a girl's most vulnerable moment, the guy who stays by her side is the one she will come to treasure the most!
2006-12-08 04:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Wow! do not understand the place to start first... because of the fact that Micha has a boyfriend i might advise you not ingesting your self together with her at this element. even however her boyfriend treats her badly she hasn't left him in all likelihood because of the fact it hasn't gotten to her yet; because of the fact that that's the case; do not provide it too lots theory because of the fact if Micha does not see a concern why do you ought to? Be cordial with Jane be sure you do not by possibility deliver any messages that could arouse suspicion which you would be interested in her. Ask your terrific chum John to concepts-set "Jane" and to tell her how he feels approximately her, because of the fact whether that is not you somebody else could scoop her up and your terrific chum might finally end up regretting not making a pass. Over all, stay calm and be friendly , attempt not not get fed on with how others react to issues (as human beings that's perplexing, yet may well be executed). wish that's effective good success
2016-10-17 23:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of how my husband and i got together....i was 15 and he was 17...i was dating his friend and my girlfriend was interested in my hubby...but the friend i was dating was an asshole and while dating him i became very close friends with my hubby...he never went out with my friend...just hung out with all of us...when i got sick of his friend and broke up with him..my hubby was right there to comfort me..we were good friends for about 6 months after that and just kinda fell into a relationship..never formally asked each other out...today im 26 weve been together for 11 years, "high school sweethearts" went to each others graduation...married for 7 years and have two wonderful kids...two rough and tumble boys like theyre dad!..
Just be there hun...be nice...supportive and be a friend...some of the best relationships start out as friendships and to this day my hubby is my BEST FRIEND!
2006-12-08 04:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jessies Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice bollywood plot
listen to ur heart & go ahead
2006-12-08 04:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by dinu_pawar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋