Is it possible to fall in love with someone within 4 hours?

Question

Please note: I know the difference between lust and love.

Answer 1

Love is something serious, it's not necisarrily the amount of time, in hrs. weeks, months etc. that can tell you if your in love or not. What I can tell you is that many people confuse infatuation with love. When ever you meet some1 new you are excited and everything they do is so cute, charming, and everything they say is so wonderful. You may connect with them in a way you've never done with any1 else, you may feel like you fit, so many things in common or they just understand you like no other! You can't stop thinking about them, you can't stop talking about them to your friends and find every way to throw them into a conversation. You want to spend as much time with them as possible-sound familiar?
Well this is how many relationships start and it's important because that's what bonds people, but you have to know that love is when you know the person COMPLETELY, you know their good, you know their bad and you still want to be with them. This usually takes a long time because you don't really start to see the "bad" until later on because every1 wants to show their best self in the Beginning, and ALSO in the Beginning everything the guy does is "cute" and you make excuses or look away at all his short comings until the rose colored glasses come off and you see his true self for who he is. Only then can you answer that question-for yourself!
Love is not all about feelings because people lose that "feeling" periodically through out the relationship. Therefore I don't believe that if you have an intense feeling for a person that it is love, because in a four hour span you can not know a person totally. Also you don't even know if you can trust the person yet so everything they can be telling you can be a lie, or positive exaggeration(because we all want to make a good 1st impression). Get to know a person before you make that determination, because saying you love some1 can affect how you perceive that person. So you won't be able to evaluate him objectively.

Answer 2

I don't think so, but I do think it's possible that you realize there's something there, that the person may be a better match for you than anyone you've ever known.

I went out with a girl in hs and at the end of the date, made a date with her for the next night. I'd never done that before, never felt such a connection before. We've now been married 26 years!

But I still don't think it was falling in love on the first date. Just a strong feeling and attraction that would give us the time to fall in love later.

Answer 3

It takes more than a few hours to get to know someone enough to truly love them in the sense of knowing you can't live without that person. A crush or strong attraction is many times confused for love. These feelings are the start of what could turn into love, but they are not the same.

Answer 4

I don't really know the answer to your question in regards to the cost of a family of four, but I can give you a bit of advice on some of the questions listed within : Package vs separate tickes: Typically, package is the way to go, although you really should look at what everyone is going to enjoy. If you can find a package that everyone would enjoy, go that route. Otherwise, some careful planning and only buying tickets to a few parks instead of several you don't want can save you a lot of money. When to go: I would suggest going during the off season. Early to mid fall would probably be best. Still plenty warm, but you'd avoid the huge crowds that make waiting in line such a nightmare during the summer. Hotels: Check out the All-Star hotels. They're themed (Movies, Music, and Sports). Not the nicest Disney has to offer, but each has a themed pool, bar, and food court, and the shuttles travel there regularly. Meal plan: I can't say this strongly enough. Hell no. The food at the hotels is ridiculously expensive, and to be honest, not all that great, at least not what I had. I would do some smart grocery shopping and bring enough food for at least a couple of meals a day (breakfast and lunch maybe, then go out for dinner). I do highly recommend, however, that you buy the refillable mugs (I think they're around $12 a piece, but you can refill them as many times as you want for your entire stay. This will save you a LOT of money if you stay at one of Disney's resorts. Fast passes: They are distributed per ride, not park. You go to the ride you want the pass for, get it, and then come back at whatever time is listed on your pass and you hop straight on. I don't remember them costing anything. You just walk up, get one, then come back. If the lines aren't very long, it's not worth it. You could end up waiting longer for your allotted time than it would take you to just stand in line. Plus, Fast Passes are for individual riders only, so you can't be guaranteed to sit together. Father's disability: Don't know what to tell you here. Is he wheel-chair bound? I can say that I saw lots of disabled people when I went and they all seemed to be having a great time. Agent vs buying yourself: My wife and I booked our trip through a travel agent, though I'm sure you could probably find just as good a deal on your own. We ended up paying right at $2k for the both of us. That included 5 nights at the All-Star Movies resort, two 5-day Park Hopper passes (go to any park as often as you want), and round trip airfare. That was in 2005. I would really suggest talking to a travel agent with such a restricted budget and specific requests. They would probably be able to help you out in planning the trip. If you're wanting to include your souvenirs in that $2000, don't expect to come home with much. We spent almost another thousand just on food, souvenirs, etc. Granted it was our honeymoon and we splurged, but you get the idea. Hope this helps!

Answer 5

I really do not think so. I think it could be lust, chemistry or something like that, but in order to be in love with somebody you have to know them, I mean inside and out and be ok with their faults as well as the good about them. It is impossible to know somebody that well in 4 hours. Not to say that you could not meet somebody, know you really like them within 4 hours, continue dating and eventually get married, that could happen. But to know that your in love, dont really think so.

Answer 6

No but your probaly having strong feelings for that person, thus thinking you are in love with that person.

There is a huge difference between loving a person and being in love, don't rush into anything love takes time to develop.

Answer 7

Its possible to develop a connection with someone, but I don't believe that you can fall in love that fast. You may have a connection and be attracted to each other, but that is not love.

Answer 8

anything is possible when it comes to love. U can even fall in love by first sight.

Answer 9

no then you dont know the real them> i mean c'mon there's no way he told you his life story. maybe you just feel attracted to him, but believe me, it's not called love it's lust

Answer 10

It is call lust