2006-12-08 03:49:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Find your womanly balls and get out of that relationship.
2006-12-08 03:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetchild Danielle 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
A marriage cannot be succesful if you are unhappy. Compund that with you being forced into a religion you do not belive in is an insult to you and an insult to the religion. I'm assuming the conversion process is a long one so you have time to get with the priest/Rabbi, etc.. and let him know that you have no desire to be Islamic and this is your husband's idea. I'm Jewish and I know for a fact that a Rabbi will not assist you in conversion if it is not what you want. So I'm assuming that the Islamic priest would feel the same way. Also, let your husband know that you do not want that, and that if he insists on pursuing this path, maybe you'll have to go down your own, even if this means without him. I wish you well on this.
2006-12-08 11:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by kwightman69 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How much does your husband know about Islam????
In Islam, a person can never be forced to convert. Let him know that, and you should know that a life lived between two people with different religions is pretty hard.
Peace.
2006-12-08 12:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is totally against Islam to force someone to convert, as in all monotheistic religions the faith has to be embraced willingly. If you husband is Muslim ask him to go and see the imam with you and bring the question up directly. It is also important for you to know that it is acceptable for a Muslim man to be married to a non Muslim woman while the reverse is not commonly accepted. If your husband continues to behave in this way then your only choice is to leave him.
2006-12-08 12:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Leave him for a better life, and trust me it might not seem it but it would be better instead of being brainwashed and forced to follow Islam. No religion is true if the person is forced, this is against God's will. If you give in now where would it lead, do you have children that would also be forced, get out now, because he can't love you if he wants to do this to you.
2006-12-08 12:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by ringo711 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you would like to convert - this will be a different matter. It will be your choice. As you obviously do not want to convert, tell your husband that you would not be able to have a self respect if he pushes you down that path. If he still does not care there should not be any other reason to live with a person who doesn't care about you. Do yourself a favour and leave him now rather than later
2006-12-08 12:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by bigblue 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is a true Muslim he should know that he cannot force you to convert to Islam.
It is difficult to advise you as we do not know enough details. If you are not happy with him and feel there is no solution and that he will not be happy until you convert then you must leave him.
My husband is Muslim, I am Christian and he would never force me to convert.
Try to talk to someone you trust.
Good luck and God Bless x
2006-12-08 13:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tia 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be forced to convert to Islam. I can't help but wonder what country you're in. Leave the person immediately.
I'd ask how you could possibly become involved with somene like that in the first place but as long as you see their true colours now then ditch them along with their disgusting ignorant misogynistic religion.
2006-12-08 11:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Run as far and fast as you can. Get to a shelter and file for divorce. No man should ever force his beliefs on his wife. It needs to be an individual choice whether or not to accept another culture. If you cannot accept his culture and he cannot accept you if you don't, then I don't see a future in this relationship. Husband and wife need to agree on beliefs and customs. It is abusive to try to force the issue.
Best wishes
2006-12-08 11:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by rac 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should not be forced to do something you dont want to do. If your truely dont want to be a part of his faith then you may need to unfortunately go your separate ways.No one deserves to be in a situation where they're being forced,humilated,or abused.
Good Luck
2006-12-08 11:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by richardsphyllis 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im afraid this story is one of so many non-muslims in this world - forced to convert to Islam ( by the way the only religion that forces such things upon people...). As for the part where your husband forces you again to wear/cover yourself like a sub-human whilst he and many other sick muslim men in this world can prance around half naked...showing off their hairy chests...and whatnot. Theres not much you can do.
You have three choices;
1. Divorce the bastard and live your life as a free human being... free to make your own choices in life as long as they are good ones and be the best that you can be and were meant to be.
2. Refuse to cover yourself and stand up to this kind of religious bigotry which only exists in Islam ( by the way, I am a male muslim and I disagree with all this religious bullshit! ) but be prepared to get marginalised by him and his family and other muslims who think like him and even perhaps being abused physically by him. After all Islam is a violent, malevolent religion that should be banned worldwide and every muslim tortured and then jailed for insulting God! I wouldnt be surprised that this sick religion is in fact the worship of Satan himself!?.
3. You agree to cover yourself PROVIDING he does the same!!
Of course he wont. Thats Islam for you!! Why should this all be a one way street??. So typical..!!
My Personal Summary of Islam:-
Islam is the total subjugation and oppression of the opposite sex = female.
Islam is now experiencing the same events as Christianity was during the Dark Ages/Middle Ages. Hence cutting off of hands for thieves, stoning and honour killings of women in Pakistan...and so much more horrific things we read and watch on cable tv everyday. Suicide bombings, sectarian murders, kidnappings and beheadings are all the result of a religion " gone to the dogs" so to speak.
Islam = Satan worship
Solution: End Islam once and for all to save mankind!
Need I say more...?
2006-12-08 12:08:49 · answer #11 · answered by msianmania 3 · 3⤊ 5⤋